I think true healthy masculinity has to have the type of latitude for growth and expansion that people who have been brought up in this particular culture have a lot of trouble with and they say things like real men don't get their nails painted or you know they don't dye their hair or doing you know modeling

as gay or whatever and they try to tear down a man's self-expression either

artistically or personally or sexually in a way that demeans him as a man.

What is happening,

what is happening everyone.

Welcome back to your favorite podcast, the Gortai Podcast. I'm Rochelle Schumhali and I am joined by John Romanello today, a New York Times best-selling offer profound knowledge and the art of communication that we are going to dive into.

One of the greatest storytellers that I think I've ever sat across and actually I'm going to record

to saying that's the best storytelling that I've ever sat across. I left this conversation

really inspired and we dive deep into so many factors that are going to challenge you. So come in

open-minded and have your heart open because when you

leave this to our conversation, you're going to feel some type of way.

Well done, thank you, Jocelyn. I'll see you inside.

John Romanello, I have so much to talk to you about today, but I want to start this by asking you about the fact I shared on the podcast a while back one in three men.

College-age men are having sex right now.

Okay.

At this moment.

Right now.

I'm jealous.

We're here chatting.

Yeah, that's better than sex.

Um, one and three men are have, are sexually active.

To me that seems very problematic.

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