#330: Top Strategies for Getting Kids to Listen & How to Teach Healthy Apologies

Parenting Beyond Discipline

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Parenting, Kids & Family

4.4 • 630 Ratings

🗓️ 10 March 2023

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Very few know how to give a healthy apology and yet it is such an essential skill in all our relationships. In this episode, Erin shares the 3 pieces to a proper apology and how to teach kids how to give proper apologies. Then Erin answers a question for a family who's really struggling with their preschooler listening and following directions and expectations. How do they fix the bad habits they've fallen into to get back on track with fewer power struggles and more peace and cooperation?

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0:00.0	Anger is hurt turned outwards.
0:03.0	So when someone's angry with you and they react, first understand, this is the first step.
0:10.0	It's their hurt turned outward.
0:12.0	Children or adults. If we're hurt, that hurt sometimes turns outward and it retaliates.
0:17.0	As the adult, we must always take the lead.
0:20.0	Our children's behavior may have been rude,
0:22.8	unacceptable by the standards we're teaching, but we must, must work with them towards understanding
0:28.4	and feeling heard before we work to coach them about apologies. Even if it feels like it's the
0:33.7	hundredth time you've talked about this, They need the practice. If they had that
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