What a lot of people report when they finally experienced some healthy form of

non-monogamy, but for them it is this very big expansive experience of like whoa you know I first of all just the

novel experience of maybe if this is your situation like maybe being in a longer

term relationship and dating at the same time and like seeing the different parts of

yourself that come out there or the experience of just being in relationship with

multiple people and seeing the different aspects of yourself that get highlighted in

different areas that the self-expansion thing feels like it really

rings true for a lot of not monogamous folk.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

I'm Dedicher. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I did.

Forcing me for myself to fix.

This episode of the Multiannary Podcast, we're talking about identity and how relationships can affect our identities in many different ways. Sometimes relationships strengthen your personal identity

and enhance the best parts of you, while other relationships may cause you to feel as though you're

losing your identity. We're going to talk about some of the research surrounding identity, ways that

relationships alter one's identity, and some actionable tools to help you retain your identity

when you are entangled with one or multiple people.

This is a big discuss very briefly.

It sort of encompassed last week's episode,

but you know, it was entwined in your episode Jis on external and internal

validation but I was interested in doing a episode on identity

specifically because I felt like when I was a kid and when I was like a

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