For some reason I think socially there's less of an expectation that you're going to have

particular standards around a casual relationship. You know unfortunately we have kind of this unofficial script for casual

relationships of like oh we're just buck buddies so that means we hook up maybe we're

friendly but no cuddling no real communication keeping each other at arm's length you know like I had a guy who said no kissing boy

oh boy oh boy we could have sex but no kissing

well did you do it? Did you do him?

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace.

I'm Emily. And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships

differently, we see you and we're here for you.

Fongs I know I did.

Force made up for myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast, we're talking about relationship standards.

Standards are discussed a lot particularly when people are dating.

Many people, usually women, are criticized for having standards that are, quote high hindering their ability to find a partner

or other people might be criticized for having standards that are too low

opening them up to being taken advantage of or keeping them in an unhealthy

relationship. So in this time as many more people are jumping back into the

dating scene we'd like to take a look at what standards even are.

What does it actually mean to have standards that are too high or too low

and how to re-evaluate your standards if you think you need to?

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