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House of Joy- Christian Life Coaching

327. Stop Settling: The Hidden Reason You’re Living Below Your Potential!

House of Joy- Christian Life Coaching

Dr. Edie Wadsworth

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Christianity, Mental Health

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever looked around at your life and thought, “I didn’t mean to settle here…but somehow I did”? You’re not alone, friend. In this powerful episode of House of Joy, Dr. Edie gets real about that quiet midlife restlessness — the feeling that you’ve checked all the boxes, built a beautiful life, but deep down…you know there’s more. More joy, more purpose, more possibility waiting for you to claim it. She shares how so many of us unknowingly set the “thermostat” of our lives too low — settling for fine instead of fulfilled — and how to raise your internal standard for what’s possible in your thoughts, emotions, faith, and daily habits. Together, you’ll explore: ✨ Why settling often feels “reasonable” — and how to recognize when you’ve done it ✨ The “life set point” that’s secretly keeping you stuck (and how to reset it!) ✨ How to partner with your potential instead of negotiating with it ✨ What it looks like to live from your true self instead of your false self ✨ Four powerful areas to raise your standard: your thoughts, emotions, habits, and faith ✨ The difference between doing more and believing more Edie reminds us that raising your standards isn’t about hustle or perfection — it’s about agreement. It’s agreeing with heaven about who you really are. It’s believing that God is still doing a good work in you and that your most alive, joy-filled days aren’t behind you…they’re right in front of you. So if you’ve been feeling stuck, restless, or just a little “fine,” this episode will reignite your hope, refresh your mindset, and invite you to step boldly into the next, truest version of your life. Because you don’t rise to your goals — you fall to your standards. It’s time to raise them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the podcast where you are invited for lighthearted conversations

0:05.6

about things that matter as you seek to live your most meaningful, beautiful, and joyful life.

0:10.9

I'm your host, Dr. Edie Wadsworth, and I hope you enjoy your stay here at the House of Joy.

0:16.8

Well, hi, dear ones.

0:18.5

Welcome back to the podcast today.

0:20.4

Let me look.

0:37.5

We're at episode 327. How is that possible? 327 episodes of House of Joy. I can't believe it. But I'm so thankful you're here. I'm so honored to be here today, you guys. In full transparency, about four hours ago, I had a chemical peel. Now, it hasn't started peeling yet, but my face is a little tight and a little shiny.

0:43.7

This is my second to last beauty treatment, as I like to call it, before the wedding,

0:49.8

which is just literally like 12 days away.

0:52.6

I can't believe that either.

0:54.5

Say a little prayer for me.

0:55.8

I feel like I could just burst into beautiful happy tears at any moment.

1:02.1

Today, though, on the pod, let me pull up my notes because this is going to be a good one.

1:07.0

I'm so excited about today's episode, which is all about the life you've settled for,

1:15.2

how to raise your standards and live as the incredible woman you're called to be.

1:21.6

Now, my question for you is this, have you ever looked around at your life,

1:25.8

maybe at your relationships, your surroundings,

1:29.5

your habits, your level of energy, your level of joy, and thought to yourself.

1:36.7

I didn't really mean to just like camp out here at this place. But somehow here we are.

1:44.1

And if you're like me, it's not that you don't love your life,

1:47.1

because you can look around. Like, I remember when I started to have this kind of, it's like a little

1:50.9

bit of a midlife restlessness where I started to be like, this is amazing in some ways. And in some

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