326 - Owner vs. Victim

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Matt Dobschuetz

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.9 • 672 Ratings

🗓️ 7 March 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Author Steve Chandler often says there are two types of people in the world; owners and victims. Victims see themselves as victims of their situation or circumstance. Life happens to them. Owners on the hand while they can't control every situation and circumstance, they control their reaction to any situation. Learning the habits of thinking like an owner is essential to be porn free.

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0:00.0	Porn Free Radio Episode 326.
0:03.8	Hey, this is Matt, and we're celebrating 10 years of porn free radio over the next 10 episodes.
0:10.1	Episode 335 will be released on our 10th anniversary, April 30th, 2024.
0:16.9	If you have a story about hope and action you took as a result of the podcast, send me an email
0:22.9	at Matt at Recoveredman.com. I'll be reading your letters on that show. All right, let's get
0:29.2	started. We're going to do a new series called The Choice is Yours. And the first choice I want to
0:34.7	talk about is in your recovery, do you want to be an owner or a victim?
0:40.1	One of my favorite coaches and authors, Steve Chandler, says there's two types of people in the world.
0:45.4	There's owners and victims.
0:48.1	Victims see themselves as a victim of their situation or circumstance.
0:53.7	Life is happening to them. They're not in control.
0:58.8	They react. And owners, despite not being able to control every circumstance or situation,
1:07.6	they control their reaction. They control the response to any situation.
1:13.5	And that dichotomy, those two opposing kind of characters, are what we're going to talk about
1:20.0	today.
1:20.6	And it's super important in recovery.
1:23.0	If you're telling yourself victim stories, if you're using victim language, you will not be able
1:30.2	to recover. It will continue to get in the way from you having true freedom. So we're going to
1:36.7	talk about that today on a new series called The Choice Is Yours.
1:43.5	Born Free radio.
1:50.9	You can get with this, but you can get with that.
1:53.8	You can get with this, but you can get with that.
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