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🗓️ 24 March 2025
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Attraction isn’t just physical—it’s deeply emotional. When couples struggle with intimacy, it’s often because unprocessed pain has created invisible walls between them. Many people unknowingly fall out of attraction with their partners due to unresolved hurt, leading to a sense of emotional and physical disconnection. When safety is compromised, self-protection kicks in, and attraction fades.
In this episode, Justin and Abi break down how emotional safety directly impacts physical intimacy and why issues in the bedroom are almost always tied to how couples relate to each other outside of it. They explore how resentment, bitterness, and unforgiveness can quietly erode attraction, while kindness, gentleness, and understanding can rebuild it. They also discuss one of the biggest threats to relationships—how partners speak to each other—and how subtle shifts in communication can reignite connection and desire.
Most people don’t realize this, but repairing emotional disconnection is one of the most powerful ways to bring passion back to a relationship. If you want to keep attraction alive—or bring it back—this episode is for you.
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0:00.0 | Life isn't perfect, and neither are we. |
0:05.0 | No, but we know how to face our fears and have some fun. |
0:10.0 | And talk about all the messiest things of lives. |
0:13.0 | Like the messiest things. |
0:15.0 | Get connected to yourself, get connected to others, and get connected to the life right in front of you. |
0:21.6 | This is the connected life with Justin and Abby. |
0:24.7 | That's me. |
0:25.5 | That's you. |
0:26.6 | And you. |
0:27.5 | Are you still attracted to me? |
0:30.3 | Is that a trick question? |
0:32.5 | What are you trying to do? |
0:35.8 | See, okay, lessen to guys out there. If a woman asked you, are you still |
0:42.2 | attracted me? You say yes. Period. Yeah, of course I am. You don't ask questions like, |
0:50.6 | what do you mean? Like physically, emotionally, physically emotionally spiritually that's what a woman would |
0:57.6 | do if I said are you attracted to me they'd say like what kind of attraction do me how |
1:03.2 | well I'm attracted to you. You are. |
1:11.2 | What do you? |
1:12.7 | Like, how so? |
1:17.7 | Physically, spiritually, emotionally. Yes. |
1:19.7 | All of those. |
1:20.4 | You are? |
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