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Laurie, let's talk about something sexy, fair play in relationships.

Oh, okay. Okay, fair play, I'm curious.

Welcome to For Play Radio, couples in sex therapy. I'm Laurie Watson, your sex therapist.

And I'm George Fallon, the couples therapist.

And we are passionate about talking about sex and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.

Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex that integrates

the mind, the heart, and the body.

What do you mean by fair play, man?

Their play is a book by E. Rotsky.

And I think what's really fascinating about it is it tries to get couples to have conversations,

to evaluate these deals that these systems that they develop in their relationship

without ever really talking about it, right?

So her whole point is saying, everybody's time is equal, it's the same.

My hour is the same as your hour.

In terms of value, what I contribute to my hour is same as your hour.

Exactly. We both are equal with our time.

And yet, what happens in a lot of relationships is we assign more value to certain people's hours

than other people's hours.

And it starts to create a lot of imbalances.

So she has this system, she has a game.

There's a lot of things people can check out.

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