Do not allow a woman to tell you what it means to be a man. You want to learn how to be a man. You got to learn from a fucking man. The same way that a woman would be incredulous if a man was walking around talking about what feminism is supposed to be like. Ray All day.com. He's exceptional. Work on your game. I like to be a coach. Work on your fucking games. Everybody has relates to what Gray is saying, is a different way. Work on your game. I like the way he thinks. Work on your fucking game. I like the frameworks that he's put together. Work on your game. And I would highly recommend it to anybody that's trying to work on their game. Work on your fucking game. I think it's a good approach. It's a different approach too. Hey, you, work on your game. Gave me something really good. What can you gain? Dryolday.com. And his philosophy makes a lot sense. Not only work on your game, perfect your craft. Work on your game. He knows how to communicate in such a fabulous way. I can't say it enough. Work on your game. You are now tuned into the show where you learned the discipline to show up day after day to do the work, the confidence to put yourself out there, boldly and authentically, and the mental toughness to continue showing up. Doing the work, putting yourself out there, even when the success you've expected to achieve has yet to be achieved.

And on top of all this, you'd have used those of personal initiative. What is that? That is the go-getter energy that moves any one of us, including yourself, to go and make things happen instead of waiting for things to happen. And then we put all this together into a series of frameworks, approaches, insights, strategies, and techniques on the umbrella of one unifying philosophy that is called Work on Your Game. My name is Drey Baldwin,

also known as Drey All Day, and welcome to the show. And today's topic is we are picking up on

a part three of our ongoing five-part series with the title, Men Stop Being Pussies. Before we getting to this, I remind you a couple of things. First of all, work on your game, university.com. You want to have me as your direct coach. Get access to all of our training materials and get on live coaching calls with me. Go to work on your game, university.com. Link is down below in the description. Also get on my email list for free by going to work

on my game.com. Let's get right into it and pick up where we left off. We are picking up on point number seven. This is part three of our ongoing three-part series. If you missed the first six points, make sure you check the previous two installments of this series. Let's pick right up on point number seven men again it's about you not being pussies anymore number seven if you are a man and you are

single and in the right up on point number seven men again it's about you not being pussies anymore number seven

if you are a man and you are single and in the dating market this specifically if you are

looking to date women okay take the lead in the situation and you will find yourself landing the

woman more often if you are single and in the dating market, take the lead in the situation with the woman,

and you will find yourself getting, landing, dating, whatever your word is.

When it comes to the woman, you will find yourself getting what you want out of the situation

more often than what

you are getting right now. Many of you as men are not taking a lead in your dealings with females,

and we already talked about this, that when the man is not leading, then the woman will take the

lead, and a woman doesn't want to have to take the lead because then she steps into a masculine frame. The leadership is a masculine frame. She steps into the masculine

frame. Now it's a masculine woman dating effeminate man and that usually doesn't work out too well

because neither of you is in your natural state. So men, you need to step back into your natural

state of leading and a woman will fall naturally into her natural state of following, but you must lead. Leading means go first. You go first and lead and she will follow behind, but you have to step up. You and any woman that you are interested in, gentlemen, you two are not a committee. All right, statues don't get built for committees. You don't give trophies to a committee. They go to individual people. So y'all are not a committee. She is waiting for you to lead and will only follow

a man who is willing to do so. Again, not giving you this example and asked you this question.

Any of you lives or has been in a big city, Miami, Vegas, L.A., New York City. Have you ever seen a not attractive man walking

around with a quite attractive woman? Why is this? Now, there could be several reasons.

The bottom round is that guy is leading in some way, shape, or form to which she is willing to

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