So you're listening to 4-play radio sex therapy Sex Therapist Lori Watson and Couples Therapist Dr Adam Matthews and we're talking today about penis size

How important that is? I'm ready to jump right into this conversation.

Let me tell you what.

No, I notice at all.

Tell us why men are so like hung up about this so to speak? Well why we're hung up

about being hung okay. Well I mean I think that it is we are constantly told that bigger is better.

Uh-huh.

Just with everything, not just with your penis, but with your muscles, with your

performance just in taller is better than shorter you know like

there's just all kinds of messages that we get from very early like just very early on that it's important and I think

comparisons you know just happens naturally in the locker room at school any

place that that like you comparison is just a natural part of the human

experience, right?

And so just in the same way that sometimes I hear that, you know, women compare their looks

to each other or to other things like that.

Or their breast size like yeah it's just it's just yeah bigger is better there too.

It's just it's just yeah bigger's yeah I mean that's just another message that bigger is

better all right I think to for little

boys you know they're comparing their child penis to their father's penis right

that's right so I think that's kind of the root of insecurity of I'm not big enough I'm not big

like daddy I'm not competent like daddy I mean I think that that kind of that's the

beginning of this anxiety about it.

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