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32 Sexless Marriage to Sexuality Doula (Ev'Yan Whitney)

How C*m

Remy Kassimir

Health & Fitness, Comedy, Sexuality

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2019

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

This week's guest is Ev'Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through  online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being "ready" for sex really means, and how Ev'Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments Ev'yan gives clients, as well as favorite success stories. 

CW- Heteronormative language 

NOTE: Ev'yan came out with they/them pronouns a few years after this episode, cumgrats! 

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0:00.0

Hello, it's me. That's great. Hello, it's me. Hi, Charlie.

0:08.8

I'm ready, Casimir. Hello, everybody. Welcome back to how come.

0:14.5

I'm so excited for today's episode before we get started. I just have to tell you some stuff about our live show coming up on August 14th.

0:22.1

I'm so excited to see you all, but some of you have been having issues getting the tickets. Don't worry.

0:27.8

It's not just you. If you got the thing that said processing and then you're not sure if the tickets ever went through, they didn't unfortunately.

0:35.5

I mean, it's not unfortunately, but they're using a new ticketing platform. You just have to sign up for a C-ticket account. They don't have to guess, check out.

0:42.8

So you just put in your email in a password and then you can get your tickets.

0:47.6

Takes two seconds and then if you ever want to come to Bacon Bits, my other show at the stand or another live show or any of the other comedy shows at the stand, you'll be ready to go.

0:57.0

So go to howcompodcast.com, go to remycasimir.com. The ticket link is on both of those. We also are putting it below in the show notes today.

1:07.6

So go if you're in New York City August 14th, we want to see you. It's a very small room. It's only 60 seats. So it's going to be really fun, really intimate.

1:16.0

We're all going to really get to know each other and have the best time. I'll probably be there in some swaggy. How come merch?

1:22.1

Because I'm obsessed with it and our store is back up. Charlotte fixed everything. Yay, shot it. We got hats. We've got sweatshirts. We've got tote bags now because our dad requested a tote bag.

1:32.2

So we made one. We've got socks because if you want to keep your feet warm for sex, that's good. It keeps the blood going to your genitals instead of to your feet to keep them warm.

1:43.5

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1:52.4

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2:08.6

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2:27.3

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2:39.6

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2:55.7

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3:04.3

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3:15.0

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