319 | Couples Whisperer, Non-Monogamy Guide & Sex Therapist: Dr Emma Smith’s Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 950 Ratings
🗓️ 21 October 2025
⏱️ 88 minutes
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Summary
Catholic confessional sex stories, military consent training, and the differences between inclusionary and exclusionary consent—Dr. Emma Smith shares her journey from shame to sex therapy, radical honesty in relationships, and helping couples open up with care and curiosity.
📈 STATS | 42 bisexual pansexual cis-presenting agender femme, she/her and any/all pronouns, in a monogamish relationship, raised Catholic, sexual assault survivor, AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice, writer, intimacy philosopher, advocate for sexual trauma survivors to enjoy sex, from New Jersey, based in Nashville, into: infusing eroticism into daily life, sharing truths and curiosities about sex with partners in playful ways, extended foreplay to build anticipation long before touch is initiated, unlocking shame stories, building sensory awareness and self-trust through solo touch exploration.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 From Catholic schoolgirl to sex therapist and intimacy philosopher
06:19 Coming out in her 30s, a Marine husband’s reaction, and her mom’s allyship
13:04 Defining sexy as authenticity and what her 42-year-old sex life looks like
16:17 Radical honesty, trauma work, and positive sentiment override
24:04 Timeouts, nervous system regulation, and timing back in
27:18 Monogamy, expansive love, and health practices around testing
34:10 Sex therapy: trauma recovery, couples work, and sex as the canary in the coal mine
38:16 Helping couples open up with relationship agreement intensives
42:15 Virgin Mary statues, masturbation shame, and “transactional” sex
58:11 Confession booth stories and Catholic guilt through college
59:29 Teaching Marines consent by valuing their own bodies
1:13:12 From trauma counseling to sex therapy and post-traumatic growth
1:16:36 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire and the myth of “spontaneity”
1:19:04 Releasing inherited shame stories
1:21:35 Believing people when they tell you who they are and allowing evolution
1:22:57 Spreading ripples of love by celebrating small creative acts as miraculous
🤩 TOPICS | AASECT certified sex therapist, allyship and coming out stories, authenticity in relationships, awareness through masturbation and solo touch, betrayal trauma therapy, bisexual femme perspective, body trust and self-awareness, Catholic guilt and purity culture, Catholic upbringing and Virgin Mary statue, charcuterie board therapy intensives, communication skills in couples, consent training for Marines, couples counseling and sex therapy, creative acts as love and miracles, daily eroticism practices, erotic embodiment and pleasure, extended foreplay for anticipation, fluid bonding conversations, health and STI testing practices, infidelity recovery and healing, intimacy philosophy and writing, masturbation shame and guilt, military sex education programs, nervous system regulation in relationships, non-monogamy frameworks and polyamory, orgasmic embodiment and desire, polyamorous relationship dynamics, post-traumatic growth and sexuality, power of curiosity and playfulness, purity ring and chastity culture, radical transparency and honesty, relationship agreements for opening up, responsive versus spontaneous desire, self-trust building through touch, sexual assault prevention training, sexual trauma recovery and healing, shame release exercises, soft yes consent framework, spontaneous desire myths and realities, survivor advocacy for sex positivity, therapy for betrayal and infidelity, trauma-informed counseling practices, valuing men’s consent and bodies, writing and intimacy philosophy.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, lovely humans. I'm Wai O. Lee and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast of |
| 0:05.1 | personal intimate histories shared so that we may learn from each other, practice deep, non-judgmental |
| 0:10.4 | listening, and co-create a more loving world. I am excited to announce the Sex Stories universe |
| 0:16.6 | is expanding. Over the past seven years, this podcast has led me to grow in ways I never |
| 0:22.6 | could have imagined, and I am eager to share even more of my personal insights, experiences, |
| 0:28.3 | and explorations. I'd like to start by introducing you to How to Woo, a podcast that so far |
| 0:34.4 | has been exactly like sex stories, aside from its safer for work, brand-friendly |
| 0:39.0 | title, and it is hosted by the nicest, naughtiest, most taboo and hands-on version of me, Luna Robbie. |
| 0:45.6 | If you would like to join me in this next chapter of creating and expanding the definition |
| 0:49.8 | of adjudic entertainment, if you want to hear how I've grown and my vision for the future, |
| 0:55.2 | and if you were curious to learn about the new sexy spaces and places I now occupy, if you |
| 0:59.8 | haven't stumbled upon them already, I invite you to join me on How to Woo, which covers all |
| 1:04.4 | things love, making love, and making lives we love, and is now the larger umbrella under |
| 1:09.5 | which sex stories will live. You can subscribe |
| 1:12.0 | to How to Woo wherever you get your podcasts to get early access to new sex stories episodes, as well as |
| 1:17.0 | our Go Woo Yourself miniseries, starting this summer with How to Brothel. And yes, to my long-time |
| 1:22.9 | listeners, mobile dungeons, creation spaces, and education forward super brothels are still very much part of the longer term, but tantalizingly increasingly closer goals. |
| 1:33.4 | Healthy, meaningful connection is the driving force behind all that I create, and I look forward to connecting with you however we do, as together we learn how to woo. |
| 1:43.3 | Now please enjoy this episode. Our guest today is a 42-year-old |
| 1:48.1 | cis-presenting technically a gender, bisexual, pansexual femme who uses she, her, any, |
| 1:53.4 | or all pronouns, and was raised Catholic, worked for the military as a civilian, teaching sexual |
| 1:59.1 | assault prevention to Marines, and is currently in a monogamish |
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