316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss
The Hard Or Soft Show
The Hard Or Soft Show
4.8 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 15 January 2026
⏱️ 128 minutes
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Summary
In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.
Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.
We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the hard or soft show, y'all. It's going to be an interesting episode this week. |
| 0:06.6 | Okay, this is not your typical hard or soft show episode. This episode is a mashup of the |
| 0:15.0 | Business of Pleasure, Bedroom Candy podcast and the Hard or soft show featuring myself, |
| 0:24.6 | Kasha Vanessa, aka the Enchantress and Candy Burris herself. |
| 0:31.9 | Okay, so I sat in with them. |
| 0:34.1 | We spoke about toys. |
| 0:35.3 | We spoke about relationships. |
| 0:41.0 | And, you know, y'all know I'm a mess, right? |
| 0:46.7 | But I kept it cute. I kept it cute. I think we all kept a cute. So many great moments in this episode that we decided to post it on both platforms to promote Kasha and I's new podcast, unconsciously competent. Okay, so Kasha and I will be |
| 1:00.8 | going. I took it easy this episode. I took it. I let it. I let I actually sat back and just |
| 1:06.1 | kind of like let Kasha and candy, you know, flush things out. You out you know i got doing little things in there |
| 1:12.0 | here and there but this is a great episode of to see kasha host and be just an amazing potter |
| 1:20.5 | and to get yo candy is such an amazing personality bro you know i've gone on trips with her i've |
| 1:27.4 | sat and spoke with her she's always just |
| 1:29.4 | so genuine and such a i wish the most for her um in this new uh season of her life so it was just |
| 1:38.6 | really great to sit with her join this episode i hope you guys really enjoy it um let me know what |
| 1:44.0 | you think. |
| 1:44.6 | And then go on over to the unconsciously competent podcast. |
| 1:49.0 | Subscribe. |
| 1:50.5 | Become a follower over there so that when we post episodes, it just pops up. |
| 1:55.5 | You know what I'm saying? |
| 1:56.0 | On your phone, so you got to think about when we're posting it. |
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