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The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast

316. Parenting and the Narcissists of Compassion | Stephanie Davies-Arai

The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast

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Education, Science, Society & Culture

4.634.5K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2022

⏱️ 107 minutes

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Dr. Peterson's extensive catalog is available now on DailyWire+: https://utm.io/ueSXh Dr Jordan B Peterson and Stephanie Davies-Arai discuss parenting and the pitfalls of compassion when linked to trans ideology. Stephanie Davies-Arai is the founder and director of Transgender Trend, the leading UK organization calling for evidence-based healthcare for gender dysphoric children and young people and fact-based teaching in schools. She is the author of Communicating with Kids with a background in teacher training and parent support. She was shortlisted for the John Maddox Prize 2018 for the schools guide Supporting gender diverse and trans-identified students in schools. In 2020 Stephanie was an intervener in the High Court in support of Keira Bell and Mrs A, who brought a landmark case against the Tavistock Gender Identity Development Service in a claim that under-18s are not old enough to consent to treatment with puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones. In 2022 Stephanie was awarded the British Empire Medal as founder of Transgender Trend for services to children in the Queen’s Jubilee Birthday Honours list. - Sponsors - Elysium Health: Save 25% off monthly subscriptions with code JBP25: https://www.elysiumhealth.com/ Audible: Try Audible FREE for 30 days. Visit https://audible.com/peterson or text “PETERSON” to 500-500. Exodus90: Is it time for your Exodus? Find resources to prepare at https://exodus90.com/jordan. Black Rifle Coffee: Get 10% off your first order or Coffee Club subscription with code JORDAN: https://www.blackriflecoffee.com/ - Links - For Stephanie Davies-Arai Communicating With Kids (Book): https://mybodyisme.com/product/book-communicating-with-kids/ Stephanie's Website: https://stephaniedaviesarai.com/ Transgender Trend Website: https://www.transgendertrend.com/ School Resources: https://www.transgendertrend.com/schools-resources/ My Body is Me: https://www.transgendertrend.com/product/my-body-is-me/ An Introductory Guide to Sex and Gender: https://www.transgendertrend.com/product/sex-and-gender/ - Chapters - (0:00) Coming up (1:27) Intro (2:40) When we dislike our own kids (4:00) The importance of duality in parenting (6:40) Optimal family dynamics (10:35) Post-Freudian world, the dismay in peace (19:43) Camps of discipline (24:55) Parenting books, lack of scrutiny (27:24) The terror in total freedom (31:50) Sam Brinton, subjective truth (40:00) Gender identity is the new counter culture (47:45) Creativity and negative flux (53:12) Twenge, self confidence, affirmation (58:52) The folly of self consciousness (1:05:11) Depression spirals (1:08:30) Demi-Boys and unstable categories (1:15:57) Anxiety, women, and social contagion (1:21:00) Objectification and over correction (1:27:55) The job of your therapist (1:35:08) Compassion and the lie of self harm (1:39:00) Facing narcissism of compassion // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/jordanbpeterson.com/youtubesignup Donations: https://jordanbpeterson.com/donate // COURSES // Discovering Personality: https://jordanbpeterson.com/personality Self Authoring Suite: https://selfauthoring.com Understand Myself (personality test): https://understandmyself.com // BOOKS // Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life: https://jordanbpeterson.com/Beyond-Order 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos: https://jordanbpeterson.com/12-rules-for-life Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief: https://jordanbpeterson.com/maps-of-meaning // LINKS // Website: https://jordanbpeterson.com Events: https://jordanbpeterson.com/events Blog: https://jordanbpeterson.com/blog Podcast: https://jordanbpeterson.com/podcast // SOCIAL // Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordanbpeterson Instagram: https://instagram.com/jordan.b.peterson Facebook: https://facebook.com/drjordanpeterson Telegram: https://t.me/DrJordanPeterson All socials: https://linktr.ee/drjordanbpeterson #JordanPeterson #JordanBPeterson #DrJordanPeterson #DrJordanBPeterson #DailyWirePlus

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0:00.0

I'll see you next time.

0:10.7

Hello, everyone watching or listening on YouTube, or associated podcast or on the daily

0:19.4

wireless platform.

0:21.4

I have the privilege today of speaking to Stephanie Davies Array.

0:25.8

She is a decorated author and the founder, as well as the director of Transgender Trend,

0:34.2

a UK-based organization that has been perpetually under fire by leftist activists simply for

0:40.6

advocating for evidence-based healthcare when it comes to gender-disfored children.

0:46.1

She's also the author of Communicating with Kids, book published in 2015, based on her

0:51.4

background training teachers and providing parental support.

0:55.2

Davies Array is also notable for being an intervener in the high court during the landmark

1:01.0

case, Bell versus Tavistock, which concluded that persons under 18 cannot consent to puberty

1:08.2

blockers.

1:09.5

So Stephanie, I was reading your book today, 2015 book, Communicating with Children, and

1:15.1

I thought maybe I could playfully put you on the spot in my first book, Twelve Rules

1:21.3

for Life.

1:22.3

I, my first popular book, I have a chapter entitled, Don't Let Your Children Do Anything

1:29.6

That Makes You Dislike Them.

1:32.2

And so what I thought I'd ask you, given that you wrote this book, detailing out different

1:39.4

means of communicating with children, developing a philosophy of communication with children,

1:44.0

kind of wondering what you think of that rule.

1:46.2

How does that strike you?

1:47.6

Don't let your children do anything that makes you dislike them.

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