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🗓️ 4 August 2024
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“Recruited into the fundamentalist Quiverfull movement as a young wife, Tia Levings learned that being a good Christian meant following a list of additional life principles––a series of secret, special rules to obey. Being a godly and submissive wife in Christian Patriarchy included strict discipline, isolation, and an alternative lifestyle that appeared wholesome to outsiders. Women were to be silent, “keepers of the home.”
Tia knew that to their neighbors her family was strange, but she also couldn’t risk exposing their secret lifestyle to police, doctors, teachers, or anyone outside of their church. Christians were called in scripture to be “in the world, not of it.” So, she hid in plain sight as years of abuse and pain followed. When Tia realized she was the only one who could protect her children from becoming the next generation of patriarchal men and submissive women, she began to resist and question how they lived. But in the patriarchy, a woman with opinions is in danger, and eventually, Tia faced an urgent and extreme choice: stay and face dire consequences or flee with her children.
Told in a beautiful, honest, and sometimes harrowing voice, A Well-Trained Wife is an unforgettable and timely memoir about a woman’s race to save herself and her family and details the ways that extreme views can manifest in a marriage.
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0:00.0 | Trigger warning. This podcast contains descriptions of various abusive situations. Listener discretion is advised. |
0:09.2 | You are listening to the Preacher Boys podcast, a podcast shedding light on decades of mental, physical, and sexual abuse within the independent fundamental Baptist movement. |
0:20.4 | The testimony shared on this podcast are told from the personal experience and perspective |
0:25.0 | of the survivors. |
0:26.8 | Not all legal outcomes are known or final. |
0:29.8 | Any suspect is presumed innocent until proven guilty in the court of law. |
0:34.4 | Now, here is your host, Eric Squarsinski. |
0:38.7 | Hey, everybody, welcome back to the Preach Boys podcast. I am currently sitting on the floor in my |
0:43.3 | room, if you're wondering, and leaning up against a wall, because currently we're preparing |
0:48.4 | for a big move, and so everything, including my desk and my microphone set up, have been taken down and are getting ready to get shipped to our new place. |
0:58.4 | And so it's starting to look pretty bare. |
1:00.7 | But I wanted to sit down and record a quick intro for my friend Tia Levings. |
1:05.1 | This episode's really incredible. |
1:06.7 | And you'll realize that right out of the gate, if you didn't already know it already from |
1:10.8 | reading Tia's writings or seeing her on a little series you may have heard of called |
1:16.6 | Shining Happy People. But I was one of the privileged first guys to read a well-trained wife. |
1:24.3 | And this book is incredible. And I've said it before, I'll say it again, |
1:28.5 | I feel so spoiled by just the plethora of incredible books that are being written, especially |
1:36.7 | autobiographies that are sharing perspectives and stories that for so many years were sadly |
1:42.7 | kept silent. And those of you that know Tia, |
1:45.7 | know she is an incredible powerhouse writer. And I mean, I feel no hesitancy to say, go grab a |
1:52.3 | copy of Well Chained Life right now. There's a link in the show notes of this episode where you can do |
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