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The Rachel Hollis Podcast

314: How to Become Your FUTURE SELF Faster | BEN HARDY Part 2

The Rachel Hollis Podcast

Rachel Hollis

Health And Wellness, Education, Spirituality, Relationships, Personal Development, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Personal Growth, Self-improvement

4.616.4K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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0:00.0

Training our kids that their opinion of their own experience matters more than my experience.

0:07.1

So I watch my kid play tennis.

0:09.6

Yeah, I could point out the gains that I see, but what's way more interesting is, what

0:13.8

do you see?

0:14.8

Like, what did that experience mean to you?

0:17.2

Like, what were your gains?

0:18.9

How are you different from where you were before that tennis match?

0:22.4

And so like rather than even needing to project my opinion of the matter, his opinion of his

0:29.5

own gains are infinitely more interesting and important than my opinion of his gains.

0:34.8

And once he starts playing in that realm, because he could even go in the gap about

0:38.2

worrying about what I think about his progress.

0:40.6

Yeah.

0:41.6

I'm an external aspect, but I'm not him.

0:44.0

He just needs to measure himself backwards, his perspective of his gains, his perspective

0:47.9

of his growth.

0:48.9

And me then just becoming curious and saying, what did you learn?

0:52.1

What are your gains?

0:53.1

What did you see from that experience?

0:55.0

And helping him do that by vice versa, and be doing it for myself.

1:00.4

Hi, I'm Rachel Hollis and this is my podcast.

1:04.2

I spend so many hours of every single week reading and listening to podcasts and watching

1:10.0

YouTube videos and trying to find out as much as I can about the world around me.

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