There's a lot of people who when for the first time they're exploring some kind of

non-traditional relationship, you know, a lot of people go into it, like you said, really not

being sure, what am I trying to get out of this? What is my purpose in this? What is our shared purpose in doing this?

Especially if like it's an open relationship or one partner is less than thrilled about it.

It can really hard to have a sense of like well what do I value in this what's my purpose

in this for me as well and so I think that that behavior of kind of starting out the

gate trying to put in a rigid structure.

It's not always bad.

It's not always toxic because sometimes it's kind of like, yeah, we just need to experience some stuff

first in a relatively safe feeling way.

And that's how we're going to start to understand

our values.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm deadaker.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships

differently, we see you and we're here for you. For some meter for myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multiannary Podcast, we're talking about doing the splits with your brain.

That's right.

We're talking about psychological flexibility.

Just straight cold splits.

Yeah. Not even not even feeling it just no problem.

So today we're going to take you through what it means to be psychologically flexible,

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