Behind the persona, you're very normal.

And I think people don't see you as being normal.

They have a perception, you know, of you being a different way.

And really, it's just like anybody else for the most part.

Well, you mentioned you call them roommate.

I do.

How did that start?

I got to know.

I think it goes back to where I naively thought nobody would know who I was on social media.

Roommate, and then he calls you princess.

He does in a very condescending way.

See, I think it's so cute, but if he's like poking fun a little bit, calls you princess?

Yes, definitely.

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and South by Northwest Hospitality. For Elgin' For Ellen Calipari, life alongside one of the biggest coaching names in college basketball, has meant learning to live just outside the spotlight and laughing through it all.

It's hard to go places with him. You feel unseen. It used to be where I was the one to take the pictures.

And I said, I'm not your photographer. And there would be a couple of times he would see somebody start to approach

me and he'd be like, don't ask her. She grew up in a tiny Missouri town, population 900, never

imagining she'd end up in packed arenas, or that her husband's players would one day call her

brownies legendary. These kids are children and they're away from home.

Most of them for the first time and they're not going to say, you know, hey, it's my birthday.

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