311: This Psychology Model Will Transform Your Love Life
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 27 August 2025
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back?
In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you to see your patterns in a whole new way. Are you ready to uncover the hidden goals that could be keeping you from moving forward?
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Love Life podcast everybody. We have a really, really interesting episode for you today. |
| 0:11.0 | If you are struggling to make change in your life, if you're someone who really wants new results, |
| 0:17.8 | maybe you really want to find love, Maybe you are struggling to get somewhere on |
| 0:22.5 | dates. Maybe there's someone you really like and you're struggling to tell them your feelings or |
| 0:27.0 | you're struggling to let go of somebody. This episode may change the way you think about everything. |
| 0:34.7 | There are some controversial claims made at the beginning of this episode. Listen up |
| 0:39.8 | because it gets really interesting and it might be the key to you changing your life today. Well, we are back in the hot London studio. |
| 1:11.1 | Toasty. The toaster. Toasty. |
| 1:12.3 | The toaster. |
| 1:14.3 | Expect us to get progressively |
| 1:15.8 | shiny for the next |
| 1:18.9 | hour. If you're watching this |
| 1:20.8 | on YouTube, expect |
| 1:22.8 | Audrey to get |
| 1:25.4 | increasingly salty. |
| 1:29.3 | Why me? |
| 1:31.0 | I don't know. |
| 1:32.4 | Salty Lestrade. |
| 1:34.5 | Stephen's the one who's always very salty. |
| 1:36.9 | False. |
| 1:37.8 | Very false. |
| 1:39.1 | Stephen's not salty. He's just sarcastic. |
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