311 | Sober Sex & Erotic Writing: Jane E’s Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 3 June 2025
⏱️ 109 minutes
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Summary
Poetry, pole dancing, and pillow humping—Jane shares her journey from sexual shame to embodied joy, and how writing, motherhood, and queer connection shape her erotic life.
📈 STATS | 33 bisexual sapiosexual genderfluid woman, she/they pronouns, polyamorous, situationally monogamous, submissive brat, poet, pole dancer, in recovery from sexual assault-related PTSD, wrote their Master’s thesis on the poetry of rape trauma, Pākeha New Zealander, into: exhibitionism, soft touch, bullet vibrators, 69ing, powerful poetry, dirty talk, and sex by the sea.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Shame-o-meter history and working through PTSD
03:02 Naked workouts, jiggle pride, and pole dancing topless
06:48 Writing as self-love and creative ritual
10:28 How she likes to be wooed: words, soft touch, and clear communication
13:05 From stress to sex: meeting basic needs before intimacy
16:44 Sobriety, STI safety, and honestly monogamous commitment
22:01 Using "stop" as a clear safe word and parenting with consent in mind
26:10 What turns her on: praise, poetry, and presence
30:26 Her favorite dirty words and the search for better language
33:31 Masturbation as inspiration for erotic writing
35:09 Sex as creativity and co-creation
36:31 The thrill of reading and sharing erotic poetry live
39:59 How she learned about sex—TV kisses, school sex ed, and parental contrast
46:25 Discovering humping, self-pleasure, and early sexting
53:57 Her first time: a sunny garden miscommunication leads to respectful first sex
1:02:39 Exploring her sexuality, fashion school disillusionment, and heartbreak
1:08:54 Kissing girls, being dominant with women, and her first threesome
1:19:34 Erotic writing after trauma, free therapy, and the power of poetic purge
1:28:27 Postpartum breakdown, healing through words, and rediscovering desire
🤩 TOPICS | Aotearotica, affirmation, arousal, being adored, bisexual, bisexual exploration, body literacy, bullet vibrators, chronic PTSD, clitoral stimulation, cock, co-creation, communication in relationships, condom negotiation, consent, contraception, creative expression, cunt, dirty talk, dominant with women, emotional safety, erotic imagination, erotic literature, erotic writing, eroticism, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, family planning, felt safety, first time sex, frottage, garden sex, gender fluid, grinding, group sex, humping, IUD, journaling, love languages, matching lingerie, masturbation, masturbation as inspiration, masturbation memories, mental health, monogamy, motherhood and sexuality, mutual desire, narrative sex, New Zealand sex culture, non-penetrative pleasure, outdoor sex, oxytocin, parenthood, penetration, pillow humping, poetry, pole dancing, postpartum depression, praise kink, pregnancy sex, public sex, queer sexuality, romantic gestures, safe word, sapiosexual, school sex education, self-advocacy, self-exploration, self-love, sensuality, sex by the sea, sex positivity, sex with women, sexual assault recovery, sexual autonomy, sexual empowerment, sexual shame, sexual storytelling, shame, shame-o-meter, situationally monogamous, slut-shaming, small press erotica, soft touch, spoken word, STI safety, stop as a safe word, swing sex, threesomes, touch, trauma healing, vibrator, zines.
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| 0:00.0 | Lovely human, I'm Wioly and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast of personal wisdom and pleasure education where we share our intimate insights and experiences to co-create a loving world together. |
| 0:11.7 | I like to think of sex as our original creativity, and I know from my own personal experience and now through thousands of hours of talking to so many of you |
| 0:22.1 | over the past seven years, that when we feel safe to be seen and express ourselves and give |
| 0:27.6 | and receive, actual real-life magic happens. |
| 0:32.0 | So, if you ever want to work with me on your own personal creativity in any form. I do help people with all |
| 0:38.7 | things sexy, including but not limited to photo and film shoots, writing, communication, |
| 0:42.7 | and touch-based frameworks. Go listen to the outro if you want details. The only thing I love |
| 0:49.7 | more than actual partnered sex is talking about it through this podcast. |
| 0:54.7 | So if you want to make me the happiest girl in the whole wide world, |
| 0:57.9 | visit sexstoriespodcast.com slash guest and submit your guest info today. |
| 1:02.7 | Just think your story could unlock someone else's world in a hugely powerful way, |
| 1:08.3 | and so many of you have let me know that the communication and |
| 1:11.9 | emotional skills that you learn from our guests and these conversations have changed your |
| 1:16.0 | lives in truly wonderful ways. And if you're shy, that's okay. You can use an alias, stay off |
| 1:21.6 | camera, and we can even change your voice. Or you can write us a little story and I'll read it |
| 1:26.0 | for you on Pod. And do remember to |
| 1:28.6 | share sex stories with a friend or two so that we can all lead better laid lives. Now, please |
| 1:34.4 | enjoy this episode. Our guest today is a 33-year-old bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid woman |
| 1:41.9 | who is naturally polyamorous, situational monogamous, and uses she-they pronouns. |
| 1:47.9 | A subby little brat and exhibitionist, language gets her wet. |
| 1:52.6 | And they are into soft touch, bullet vibrators, 69ing, powerful poetry, dirty talk, and sex by the sea. |
| 2:00.3 | A pakeha, which is to say non-Mauri, New Zealander, poet and |
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