31 The Thing About Labels (Ali Kolbert)

How C*m

Remy Kassimir

Comedy, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Sex, Funny, Learning, Education, Fun, Girltalk, Humor

4.8 • 2.3K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2025

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, hating how people post on Instagram, and so much more.

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0:00.0	Hello everybody. Welcome back to how come this episode we are talking to hilarious stand-up comedian
0:06.7	and Virgo and my friend, Ali Colbert. You might have seen her on the Tonight Show or the Today Show
0:12.9	or the mid-afternoon. No, I'm just kidding. She's been at the Kennedy Center. She's touring all the time.
0:19.3	She's fucking hilarious.
0:28.8	And we recorded this episode half in August, half in September, about this issue,
0:40.4	this conversation that had hit the lesbian, queer, femme world. And I'm very excited for you to hear the conversation. Also, though,
0:44.8	trigger warning, there's like a lot of topics that are brought up that might be like,
0:52.4	ugh. Also, I'm like very problematic in this episode. I'm pretty sure I call people ugly a few times, which is like, who is she? She's me. But it's a
0:58.0	really, really, really fun episode. Allie is a dream. You'll learn a lot of stuff. And yeah,
1:02.6	if there's anything that you want us to know about how you're feeling, DM us at How Come Podcast,
1:09.0	or DM me at Remy Casimir.
1:11.1	Okay, enjoy.
1:12.2	How come?
1:13.1	How come?
1:14.6	How come I can't achieve?
1:16.3	How come I can't achieve?
1:18.1	I'm rolling up my sleeves.
1:19.7	I'm rolling up my sleeves.
1:21.5	Oh, baby, I believe these guests can help because I can do it by myself I want a jiz.
1:30.3	Welcome, Ali.
1:32.2	Hi.
1:32.9	Hi.
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