meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Strictly Stalking

309. Behind Her Music: Coles Whalen v. The Stalker

Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking

True Crime, Society & Culture, Talk Radio

4.22.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Singer-songwriter Coles Whalen never met her stalker — but for more than six years, he was everywhere. Hiding behind anonymous accounts, a man sent thousands of messages, fixating on Coles's music, her personal life, and eventually her family. What began online escalated into a pattern of harassment that reshaped her daily life — forcing her to change routines, cancel shows, and live under constant fear. Coles eventually found herself at the center of a landmark legal battle — one that would challenge how the justice system defines stalking in the digital age.

HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? 

LET US KNOW:

[email protected]

GUEST LINKS

Coles Whalen

https://www.coleswhalen.com/

https://www.instagram.com/coleswhalen/#

https://www.tiktok.com/@coleswhalen

"Stronger" on Spotify

OTHER LINKS

The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe

Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip

Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/

And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast

lovelustfear | hosted by Jake Deptula

Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4

Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec

Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/

Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear

Instagram:

@strictlystalkingpod

@feathergirl77

@jaked3000

 

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

He has all these ideations about how he, you know, all these terrible things that he wants to do to you and, you know, and ultimately would like to see you die. So you're in real danger.

0:10.9

I'm Jamie Beebe. And I'm Jake Deptula. On today's episode of Strictly stalking, we're speaking with singer-songwriter Coles Whalen, a woman whose life was turned upside down by a relentless stalker she had never met.

0:22.3

For more than six years, Coles was targeted by a man who hid behind anonymous accounts, sending

0:27.5

thousands of messages. He fixated on her music, her personal life, and even her family,

0:33.1

twisting his delusions into threats that grew darker and more disturbing over time.

0:37.5

The emotional toll was enormous.

0:39.8

Cole changed her routines, canceled shows, live with fear, and watched as the harassment

0:44.3

spread from digital spaces into her real world.

0:47.6

She eventually became the center of a landmark legal battle that challenged how the justice

0:51.8

system defines stalking in the digital age. Coles,

0:55.2

thank you so much for joining us today. Thanks for having me, you guys. Of course. What inspired

1:01.2

you to become an artist when you're growing up? Was music something that was part of your household,

1:05.6

part of your upbringing? I've been performing since I was very young. I started with a professional

1:10.4

performing group when I was seven. And so I've been singing and dancing all my life. I started writing my own songs in high school. And when I left Colorado for college, I went to Los Angeles where the music scene was popping. And that's when I started writing my own songs and producing my own records. So I've been doing it a long time.

1:28.2

When you ended up moving to Los Angeles, what was that experience like for you?

1:32.5

I loved Los Angeles.

1:33.9

I was in college there for music.

1:36.4

I joined the Thornton School of Jazz, the Institute that's rotating.

1:40.8

And at that time, it was at USC University of Southern California.

1:43.4

So I was a vocal

1:44.7

performance major there. I made some incredible friends, wonderful musicians that are still in my

1:49.8

life today. And it was a great place to sort of germinate music. And we all had, you know,

...

Transcript will be available on the free plan in 27 days. Upgrade to see the full transcript now.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Strictly Stalking, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Strictly Stalking and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.