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I Have ADHD Podcast

309 ADHD & Friendship, Part 1: Red Flags, Green Flags, and How to Make Real Connections

I Have ADHD Podcast

Kristen Carder

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Friendship as an adult is hard—and when you have ADHD, it can feel almost impossible. The impulsivity, the overthinking, the struggle to set boundaries or trust your gut... it’s a lot. But you can build strong, supportive friendships—and it starts with knowing what to look for (and what to avoid). In Part 1 of this two-part series, we’re breaking down: Why friendships can be uniquely challenging for ADHDersHow to recognize red flags before you waste time on the wrong peopleWhat green flags to...

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0:00.0

Welcome to the I Have ADHD podcast, where it's all about education, encouragement, and coaching for adults with ADHD.

0:13.8

I'm your host, Kristen Carter, and I have ADHD.

0:17.5

Let's chat about the frustrations, humor, and challenges of adulting, relationships,

0:22.8

working, and achieving with this neurodevelopmental disorder. I'll help you understand your unique brain,

0:29.7

unlock your potential, and move from point A to point B.

0:37.3

Hey, what's up? This is Kristen Carter and you're listening to the I have ADHD podcast. I am

0:43.3

medicated. I am caffeinated. I am regulated and I am ready to roll. Welcome on in. Get cozy.

0:52.2

I wonder what you're doing today. Are you doing the dishes? Are you folding

0:55.5

laundry? Are you out for a run? Are you driving around? Maybe you're on your commute to work.

1:01.5

Maybe you're out for a hike. What are you up to? I'm so glad that you press play, that you are

1:07.8

listening to this, that I get to be your body double for whatever it is

1:11.8

that you are doing. What's up? We're going to talk about friendship today and it's going to be

1:16.9

great. But first, I got to tell you a story about my morning and just how hard it is to like

1:23.0

function as a human with ADHD in the world. I have a neurodivergent kiddo, and he's like

1:30.3

especially neurodivergent, I would say. On the scale of neurodivergency, on the spectrum of

1:36.2

neurodivergency, I would say he's especially neurodivergent. And this kiddo struggles so

1:43.3

much with getting up in the morning. Do you relate to that?

1:48.1

I just feel like it is so unfair that society is set up for neurotypicals. It's so unfair for

1:56.7

neurotypicals who just bounce out of bed and just like go on their way. Like my neurotypical husband

2:02.7

has zero drama about waking up in the morning. The alarm goes off. He gets out of bed. It's no big

2:09.1

deal to him. It's not an imposition to him. I mean, he doesn't love it sometimes, but it doesn't

2:15.2

wear his capacity thin and lead him to burnout. Meanwhile, I have

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