308-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On)
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 8 October 2021
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
This Monday -- Oct 11 is when the Men's Masterclass begins -- sign up delightym.com and please send it to your friend who may need this.
--Now to the show!--
I think all the wives will want their husbands to listen to this one.
Because I have the good fortune of working with men every (work) day and hearing their unfiltered thoughts about intimacy...
I can help you understand why your wife often rejects you.
One of the major truths is that it's SCARY to initiate sex with your wife.
So, you probably do...
But in general, it's a half-invested way, in hopes that her rejection won't feel so painful. Because from experience it has been rejected, even your best attempts.
Fast forward to today.
Now, because a husband's attempt at enticing his wife to make love is so "inadequate" for fear of rejection.
(Jfyi "inadequate" was the thesaurus's replacement for "lame" :) )
For this reason, the wife naturally would reject it.
But what if we took the fear out of this exchange entirely?
And your enticing her towards intimacy was filling for her and could even be successful!?
AND you're not full of fear.
Is that even possible?
I think with these insights, you will be well on your way.
to invite a wife--who is never in the mood--
to be in the mood!
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Jfyi, I go a lot deeper in all of this in a systematized and even templated way in one of the bonus courses, "Romantic Initiating: Start the way she craves". It's part of the Masculinity Reclaimed program.
If you sign up for the men's masterclass you'll find out all of the details.
Join the free Men's Masterclass starting Oct 11 -- sign up ASAP delightym.com
We all have someone who needs help in their marriage, I would be honored and I encourage you to have the courage to send them this way! delightym.com
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.6 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:21.4 | Hi there and welcome. |
| 0:23.6 | I want to thank you for joining me. |
| 0:25.6 | If you're new to the podcast, this is the space that we talk about sex and we talk about |
| 0:31.4 | it specifically and we talk about the human heart and the way God has designed us, men |
| 0:37.3 | super duper differently than women. |
| 0:41.1 | And I have the privilege of working with men and I have the privilege of working with women |
| 0:46.5 | separately because I think each side needs to be trained to love the other well. And that's a very biblical concept in Titus too. |
| 0:57.7 | It talks about older women, teach the younger women how to love their husbands. And it talks about |
| 1:03.6 | in another part of scripture of husbands, approach your wives in an understanding way. How do you understand your wife? |
| 1:13.7 | Well, that's the whole goal of this episode and so many of my resources. So before we dive into |
| 1:22.3 | getting your wife in the mood, helping her to get turned on, that's an opportunity for you as a husband to learn |
| 1:30.9 | how to do that. I want to invite you to the men's masterclass. You can go to a very easy website, |
| 1:38.5 | delightym.com. That'll put you straight to delight your marriage.com and all the information to sign up for that |
| 1:47.1 | masterclass is there. If you're listening in the future, you can go to delightyourmarriage.com |
| 1:52.5 | slash masterclass and get on a wait list. This masterclass is only available a couple times a year, |
| 1:57.4 | and men have told me many times over that it has been extremely helpful |
| 2:02.2 | for the transformation of their marriage has been the first step is this masterclass. So we as a team |
| 2:09.6 | put our all into this process and we'd love to have you. It's free, but you do have to sign up. |
| 2:15.0 | It's coming right up here on October 11th, 12th and 13th. |
| 2:20.5 | So get on the list, get access, and I look forward to having you on the inside. |
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