#307 Single, No Kids

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.8 • 765 Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2021

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

On this episode… Single and “childless” (there’s gotta be a better term for that) - Why you shouldn’t (or should?) ask people about their parenting status. Then we get litigious about Black hair, and we finally talk about Dave Chappelle

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. Drink up!

This week’s hot list: talking reckless to Vivica A. Fox, sh!t people ask women with no kids, Medical drawings and white supremacy (for real), spa etiquette, wtf is a legacy exactly, can a triggering question be a good question, Jeffery Thorton and the CROWN act (them lawsuits hit different), a wellness check on Dave Chappelle and mad other ish

Libations: 7:17

Donation Libations: 17:08

Affirmations: 19:32

The politics of being grown and “childless”: 20:28

Moment in Black Hair: 53:54

Dave Chappelle, the not so great Bokeem Woodbine: 1:07:58:00

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This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones, social media & production support from Channél Jordan, and graphic design by Jo Caraballo

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

Segment Music by Chad Milner

Transcript

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0:00.0	Single and childless.
0:02.1	There's got to be a better term for that.
0:04.2	Why you shouldn't or should ask people about their parenting status.
0:08.3	Then we get litigious about black hair.
0:10.8	And we finally talk about Dave Chappelle.
0:13.7	It's tea with Queen and Jay.
0:15.0	Drink up.
0:19.6	How you doing?
0:24.6	I'm doing good.
0:25.7	How are you doing Miss Birthday girl?
0:29.2	It's your birthday.
0:30.6	It's your birthday.
0:33.6	I'm okay.
0:34.6	I'm okay.
0:35.2	It is still my birthday.
0:36.4	I guess my birthday week, my birthday month.
0:39.7	But when I left the state... You're one of those people who claim the whole month.
0:42.5	I am, but I can't front. I totally forgot about it. I mean, it was over. Once I left the state, I left my birthday behind. It was wrapped up. I left it in a year. Yeah, I stopped thinking about it as a rap. It was a rap.
0:55.3	But, no, but I had a good birthday.
0:56.0	It was good.
0:58.2	Thank you to everybody who sent me love.
1:00.3	I really appreciated that, yo.
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