304-No Desire Due to Abuse, But Now "I Just Want It So Bad!" Testimonials with Two Pastors
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 17 September 2021
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Pastor Nathan's wife had abuse/trauma growing up that severely inhibited her sexual desire and affection with him.
They were good people and she wanted to love him well, but couldn't because of her past.
And her libido was SO low.
Pastor Nathan went through the Masculinity Reclaimed program and his wife transformed before his eyes.
(She didn't do a program).
His favorite moment was when he said after a very passionate experience and he said "thank you"--she responded "well, it was because I wanted it so badly"!
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Pastor Todd & Donna had a great marriage. (Donna joined him for this interview!)
They come from a long line of pastors and are very busy doing a lot for others.
And it was really good -- but intimacy was physically painful for Donna and she also had low drive.
Pastor Todd joined the MR program (almost by accident) and he felt like he didn't belong there because everyone seemed to have it much worse.
And he felt that her physical pain wasn't because of him at all.
But, he took a step of faith and signed up. She didn't do a program.
BUT... through the program SHE started initiating way more than ever and she didn't even notice.
She started enjoying it more and their marriage has flourished!
He has a Masters in Family Life Ministry said in an email to me:
"My wife and I have been to and led MANY Christian marriage conferences and retreats and
Bible studies and have watched many marriage videos and read many books and I have done
pre-marriage counseling with couples in my role as a pastor and camp director, but I have never
experienced anything as comprehensive and effective as Masculinity Reclaimed!"
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Excited for you to hear these two mens' stories, as professionals in the field God has used MR to help their own marriages and I am SO honored, humbled and grateful.
Blessings,
Belah
PS - If you want to see what MR is all about and get some fantastic free training, sign up for the Free Men's Masterclass coming up next month: October 11, 2021 ( delightyourmarriage.com/masterclass )
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| 0:00.0 | I've led many pre-marriage counseling sessions with couples as a pastor. I've, you know, I've |
| 0:04.9 | a master's degree in Fame and Life ministry, and all that is great stuff. But I just couldn't |
| 0:10.1 | believe there were so many men. I'm like, man, these guys have just got such challenges with their |
| 0:14.9 | marriages. I want all of my married friends to have this, not just information, but this |
| 0:19.5 | experience. |
| 0:23.7 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:30.2 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:35.5 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:37.6 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:41.3 | Oh my goodness. |
| 0:45.4 | I am so excited to bring you today's episode. |
| 0:50.7 | So we're going to be hearing from Pastor Todd and his wife, Donna. |
| 0:54.2 | And we're also going to be hearing from another pastor, Pastor Nathan, |
| 0:58.7 | and they both are graduates of the masculinity reclaimed program. |
| 1:04.6 | And not only do they share their stories, which you're going to want to really listen to, because just a quick overview is Pastor Nathan's wife had a really tough childhood and it impacted their |
| 1:14.2 | intimacy from day one and affection. And they had a great marriage aside from this area. And then |
| 1:20.9 | it gets better. So you'll want to hear his. And then speaking to Pastor Todd and his wife, it's pretty exciting because she actually |
| 1:31.6 | started out with more of a physical issue around pain with sex. And it was really impacting |
| 1:38.6 | their connection. And lo and behold, he went through MR. She did not go through a program and yet things transformed. |
| 1:48.7 | So you're going to want to listen in. |
| 1:50.1 | Now, before we get into that, I want to invite you personally to the men's master class |
| 1:56.1 | coming up here October 11th, 12th, and 13th. |
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