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The Amy Porterfield Show

#303: The One Episode I Didn't Want to Record

The Amy Porterfield Show

Amy Porterfield

Marketing, Entrepreneurship, Business

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2020

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

The title says it all. This is an episode, I definitely didn’t want to record… at first! But then I got to thinking, and I knew that sharing this experience with you, and being vulnerable was only going to help and benefit you and your business in the long run. Here’s what happened. I got an email from a student who was disappointed in my newest product and made sure I knew that she was not impressed. And you know what, it hurt. It really hurt. But after I took a step back, I realized that there are five things that I need to commit to in order to move my business forward, stand up for what I believe in, and block out those who don’t agree with me. Here’s a snapshot of those five things… Those who have achieved more than me will never judge me for wanting more. Sometimes things are going to get tough -- that’s just the nature of being an entrepreneur. So, I must commit to having thicker skin. I create my own thoughts and no one can hurt me. I’m in charge of what I think and feel… period. I’ll never let an individual’s opinion dictate how I feel or how I do business. I am here to stay. This episode was tough for me, so I want to thank you for allowing me to share my heart. Here’s a breakdown of the episode… [02:50] As entrepreneurs, we’ll always have people on the internet who disagree with our life or business goals — we have to ignore them. However, it’s a little different when you hear negative feedback from a student, and that’s exactly what happened to me. [03:37] During my recent membership site launch, a past student wrote in to share her opinion of what I was doing and, let’s just say, it wasn’t very positive. [05:39] Receiving something like this from a student of mine stung. In the moment, I recorded a response to her to let her know why I created my newest product and why I believe in it so deeply. [11:59] It’s important to remember that someone who has achieved more than you will never judge you for wanting more. [14:20] Sometimes things are going to get rocky and feel really uncomfortable. You've got to have thicker skin! [15:19] Because you create your own thoughts and feelings, no one can hurt you. Always keep in mind that you are in charge of what I think and what you feel. [17:25] At the end of the day, no matter who disagrees with what I’m doing, I am here to stay! Tell yourself that during hard times when building your online business.

Transcript

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You're going to experience this as well. Strangers on the internet are always going to tell you what they think and they're always going to find a way to cut you down. They don't matter. We don't even pay attention to them, right?

0:10.0

But what about students that as you grow and change and do bigger things in your business? What about those people that you care deeply about because you've supported them and you've helped them and now they think you're doing something wrong?

0:23.0

We also need to have thick skin with them as well. Love them, wish them well, but not believe them. We've got to be ready for people to say, who do you think you are? The audacity to charge that? The audacity to create something like that for those people? This isn't right. You're not right. You're doing this wrong. Shame on you.

0:43.0

We're going to hear that and we have to move forward anyway. We're going to hear that from people that used to believe in us. We've got a little bit beyond where they're comfortable with. So now they're going to start saying stuff and we've got to still keep moving on.

0:57.0

I'm Amy Porterfield. X Corporate Girl turned CEO of a multi-million dollar business. But it wasn't all that long ago that I lacked the confidence, money, and time to focus on growing my small but mighty business. Fast forward, fast many failed attempts and lessons learned. And you'll see the business I have today. When that changes lives and gives me more freedom than I ever thought possible. When that used to only exist as a daydream.

1:26.0

I created the online marketing made easy podcasts to give you simple, actionable step-by-step strategies to help you do the same. If you're an ambitious entrepreneur or one in the making who's looking to create a business that makes an impact and helps you create a life you love, you're in the right place. Let's get started.

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2:56.0

Okay, so let's go ahead and dive in. So I did a thing. And at the time that I did it, I felt really good about it.

3:06.0

And then as I've done a little journaling, worked with my coach, thought about it for a while, I don't feel so great about what I did.

3:15.0

And I thought I would share it with you because I think it might help you down the road if you come into a situation like I had.

3:22.0

And I just the next time this happens to me, I'm going to deal with it differently. So I thought maybe I could help you side-set a challenge that might come your way.

3:30.0

Okay, so here's the thing. You know how you watch those videos on the web from people like we love and we trust and they motivate us and they say things like, don't let a stranger's opinion on the internet dictate how you feel or what you do in your life or your business.

3:48.0

Right, we've seen those videos and they're good. And I 100% believe it. I'm like, yeah, of course.

3:54.0

So if I put up a Facebook ad in some total stranger in the comments as you're an idiot, you look like crap, I just ignore it.

4:03.0

Because I'm like, I don't know who you are and you've got your own opinion. Like it doesn't even face me.

4:09.0

However, what if a student who is loyal to you and has taken your program and gotten success and is a huge fan? What if they write an hate email?

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