I might even be jealous of someone else's success and I might and I might even feel bad about myself for a little bit in that process

But hopefully the healthy result of that is coming away going okay what of that can I try to get in my life how can I be motivated by that what could I look at to try to improve there and I think that

because we're trying to get away from this cultural narrative about competition with your

partners or other partners.

We can kind of beat up on ourselves for feeling any of those feelings of jealousy or comparison

and they don't necessarily have to be bad.

Like it could also just be a natural thing and maybe it feels a little shitty, maybe you are a little

bit down on yourself, but as long as you're not letting that cause you to then try to sabotage

their relationship or write or talk shit about them or try to put them down and instead try to eventually lift yourself up.

I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing even if you feel a little bit bad in the process.

Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily and I'm Dedaker. We believe in looking to the future of

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

Forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode, To fit.

On this episode of the multi-emmery podcast, we are challenging ourselves and you, your listener,

to take a deeper look at some of the most common beliefs and aphorisms among

the Polyamorous community. When you're new to Polyamory, most of us like to trot out these well-established ideas because they are really

important shifts from the compulsory monogamy that our culture teaches us.

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