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🗓️ 21 September 2021
⏱️ 109 minutes
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This week we are talking anal penetration and "Peg The Patriarchy," a slogan coined by sex educator Luna Mattatas but made uber viral by Cara DeLevigne last week, wearing the stolen phrase in a Dior outfit on the red carpet of the Met Gala.
We talk to Luna about what she intended the phrase to mean when she coined it in 2015 and what Cara has taken it to mean as well as the Twitter discourse surrounding it and how she felt seeing it stolen. We also discuss why the term "pegging" itself can be problematic, its origin story with former guest Dan Savage and various other terms to use instead.
We then learn all about pegging welcuming back Lola Jean, sex educator and instructor of Remy's masturbation class, who teaches us about using fingers, using a strap on, and toys to use when first experiencing anal. We also talk to Brian who receives anal often from a cis female partner and tells us about how he got into it as well as his preparation for a date.
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0:00.0 | Okay, is everybody ready? Is everybody laying down? |
0:04.0 | I'm laying down. Okay, amazing. |
0:08.0 | Hello everybody, welcome back to How Come. This week we are talking all about pegging, |
0:14.0 | anal penetration, whatever you want to call it, inspired by Caradel Levine's stolen phrase that she wore in her chest at the |
0:20.0 | MacGala, peg the patriarchy. There is a lot of discourse going on on the internet about what peg the patriarchy means. |
0:28.0 | If pegging is even a word that people want to use, I know a lot of people are offended by it. |
0:33.0 | And to those people, it's going to be used a lot in this episode, but we do talk about why it can be problematic. |
0:39.0 | And other words that you can use instead. But everybody has been requesting this topic for such a long time. |
0:46.0 | And this cultural moment happened where Caradel wore this stolen phrase on her chest. |
0:52.0 | There has been a lot of discourse about this phrase on Twitter, what it means, what care meant by it, and what the sex educator who invented the phrase in 2015 meant by it. |
1:04.0 | We are so delighted to be able to speak with sex educator and inventor of the phrase peg the patriarchy, Lunamitatus, about what pegging means, what she meant by that phrase, how she felt when she saw it pop up uncredited on Caradel Levine's |
1:18.0 | Dior number at the Met Gala last week. And then later in the episode, we are welcoming back Lola Jean from season one to teach us some pegging tips. |
1:26.0 | And our new friend, Brian, too, who tells us why he enjoys pegging and how he got into it. |
1:32.0 | There are so many sexy tips and tricks in this episode, highly recommend listening to the whole thing. |
1:38.0 | There's also a lot of social commentary. Some of it you might hear mentioned more than once, but don't worry, it's sexy. |
1:47.0 | It's all very sexy. I've been listening to you guys. I know a lot of you have been saying more sex. We literally, we got a very bad review. |
1:57.0 | Well, not a bad review, but we got a three star review. We don't usually got three star reviews. And it was like, I love Remian Robin, but I miss the sex. |
2:04.0 | We need more sex. None of this influencer shit anymore. And like, yeah, I know we talk about Instagram and TikTok and the Met Gala. |
2:11.0 | But this stuff does apply to sex. Like last week's episode, if you just looked at the episode, you're like, ew, Greek life. Totally. |
2:18.0 | But it always applies to sex. I would never steer you wrong. And if I have, I'm sorry, but don't worry. It gets sexy, sexy, sexy in this episode. |
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