Do you ever feel like nothing is going right? That's how a woman named Lorraine describes a season in her life.

It was just life things all caving in at once. Her family had lost their home during a series of bad storms.

In 2004, they didn't have any insurance and lived with family for a couple years. Then Lorraine's husband lost his

job and she totaled the car. How did we wind up here? Lorraine wondered what God was trying to say

through all this. Maybe God was disciplining her husband for something. And I actually was questioning,

was he walking with God? So she and her husband

got some counsel. I was taking it upon myself to take this to our pastor. The pastor spent a few

days thinking and looking at scripture. They got back together and he addressed some questions.

Lorraine thought that would be the end of the conversation.

But then, her pastor made an observation she hadn't asked for. He said,

Every time I tried to talk to your husband, you interrupted.

This pastor opened Ephesians 533. It reads,

Let each one of you love his wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

This pastor identified a problem that was deeper than housing and vehicle issues.

Lorraine wasn't respecting her husband, and she was convicted by her pastor's observation.

So, she googled this phrase.

How to respect your husband? The results of that internet search deeply affected this couple.

Lorraine discovered a 30-day challenge from Nancy DeMoss-Walgamuth.

It is life-changing. It's a challenge that is transforming marriages everywhere.

It really felt like we were boyfriend and girlfriend all over again. You know, we were having

fun. You would be surprised at how those little things not only affect him, but they would affect

you. He really thinks I'm important and he thinks what I have to say is important.

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