Why hurt people, people. My name is Andrea, and this is adult child. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

now.

Yeah, yeah.

What you holding on to

What you holding on to,

but just let it all go.

What's making you slow now?

Let it all go.

Welcome back to adult child, where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family.

And today we are diving deep with Nathan Spiteri,

the author of the newly released memoir,

Poy Cars, One Man's Journey from Triumph to Trauma.

And Nathan is out there doing the Lord's work.

This book is raw, it's real, it's insightful, and it is shining a light

on some very heavy yet important subject matter that needs to be discussed which I will get to in a

sec but first I want to say now Nathan may not be the typical guess that we would have on here

yes he endured trauma and abuse as a child, but it was not

at the hands of his family. In fact, he grew up in a rather healthy and functional family.

I guess those do really exist guys.

Who the hell knew that?

But while not at the hands of his parents, the trauma and the abuse that he endured as a kid

resulted in the same characteristics in adulthood that growing up in a dysfunctional family often has. I had him

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