Matthew Hussey here with Love Life. Have you ever wondered whether you should date more

than one guy at a time? Every dating expert seems to have a different opinion on this.

But what did Guy has really think about a woman who keeps her options open? Well I'll tell

you how to get the answer at the end of the show. First, let's get into today's episode.

Today we are talking about the three things that you have to always remember when you're having

an argument. The really sad and tragic part about arguments is it's the people that we actually

care about the most that we end up hurting the most. I'm doing damage too and sometimes that

damage lasts a very long time and is extremely difficult to reverse. So I have a couple of tips

that I want to give you. And by the way, if you have a pen and paper, if you have a pen and paper

anywhere in this show, write stuff down. There's cliched and cheesy as it sounds, a dull pencil is

a better, there's better than a sharp mind. If you can write it down, you're going to remember this

stuff. So the first one is diffuse the situation quickly. Now there's a kind of idea in arguments

that sometimes you need to take time. Sometimes you need to take time away. You need to walk away

and you need to go into a different room or you need to leave for a day or two and then come back

and revisit the argument. Now I think in some cases that allows people to not vent in an extremely

hypersensitive way and for that reason can be the lesser of two evils. I do however think that if

it's a tall possible for you to do so, diffuse it now. That should always be your motto. How do I

diffuse this now instead of walking away? Diffusing it quickly, diffusing it now allows you to move past

the situation. And let me give you an example of this. I think a very common thing that happens in

couples is they're walking down the street and someone gets kind of offended because they catch

their partner looking at someone else for too long. Now of course what happens in this situation?

Well firstly they don't speak up. So now they go the whole day being irritable because they remember

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