Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to tell you

what some of the top habits are and some of the top reasons are for why our early connections fizzle.

Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide called copy and paste texts

for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that will be in the show notes.

And then if you are interested in doing a free 15-minute laser coaching session with me,

where you can ask me any question you have around dating or confidence, then the link to

schedule that call is in the bio of my Instagram page. My Instagram page is just my first and

last name, Amber Grubenman.

Okay, so let's talk about why some connections fizzle out and what we can do to help support more of our connections and lasting longer.

So, of course, not every connection is meant to last or should last more than one or two dates. However, if you've

been on a long, long streak of many one or two dates or having very short relationships that are only

like a month or so, it can be helpful to look at what you can do to help support those little

plans to reach their full potential.

So the first reason why things fizzle out is because we can be really difficult with making

plans. And this isn't just a romantic thing. This is also a friendship thing where ever since we became adults hanging out

became a really big deal. And we make it really difficult to make plans with people sometimes.

And we have all of these other commitments going on. And we have a hard time prioritizing dates slash other people in general. So what's really important

here is to take off some of the pressure of what a date is. Sometimes when we're in connection

with somebody, we almost have this attitude of like, well, okay, so the holidays are coming up,

then I'm going to be out of town for a week, and then I'm going to do this,

and then I'm going to do that, and Friday nights are not good because I see my friend

Aaron, and then I'm going to do, so we make it like somebody needs to pencil themselves

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