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Dear Young Married Couple

3 Reasons Men Can't Quit Porn

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8871 Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2026

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

⛓️ If you’ve been stuck in the same cycle and can't seem to break free, this might explain why… This is what's actually driving unwanted behaviors (spoiler: it’s not just a lack of discipline.) There are deeper patterns at play: the way your brain solves discomfort, the condition of your body when stress is high, and the hidden role of shame that quietly keeps people stuck. When you understand these three layers, things start to click in a whole new way. Resources: Adam's FREE Porn Recovery Assessment: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/porn-recovery-focus-group Ted Talk Lisa Feldman: https://www.ted.com/talks/lisa_feldman_barrett_you_aren_t_at_the_mercy_of_your_emotions_your_brain_creates_them Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Think about the last time you said that was the last time.

0:04.7

And really, you meant it.

0:07.0

What you're saying wasn't a performance.

0:09.4

It was a real decision you made because you genuinely didn't want to do it again.

0:15.4

But then it happened again.

0:18.4

And most men spend years assuming the same thing that the problem is just their willpower,

0:24.9

or it's their faith, or it's their discipline. So what they try to do is, well, I got to try

0:31.7

harder. Something's broken in me. I'm the problem then. So what they try to do is get more

0:37.0

accountability or if they're really

0:39.8

trying hard or more resolve. But more shame comes next Tuesday when they're facing the same

0:49.4

problems over and over again. But what if the problem isn't how hard you're trying?

0:56.1

But what if you've been fighting the wrong thing?

1:00.0

Maybe you've been using the wrong weapons,

1:03.1

or maybe the wrong weapons in the wrong location for years.

1:08.8

So today we're going to talk about the three reasons men can't get free from

1:13.8

pornography. Sounds like a game of clue, the wrong weapons in the wrong location. We're going to

1:22.1

talk to you, though, about these three reasons. And, you know, it's before you ever clicked on anything, something happened inside of

1:31.9

you. Talking to you, the person, I mean, we're directing this to men, but it can be men or women.

1:37.5

The, um, the person who clicked on porn or you're engaging in unwanted sexual behavior of some sort.

1:45.4

Something happened inside of you.

1:47.9

And you had a disconnection and you had a lot of stress around that disconnection.

1:54.9

And there was a hollow, heavy sensation that shows up for no clear reason on a random day. And you may not have thought of it as a

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