Welcome to being her, the ultimate guide to living your best life as her. Join me, Margarita,

on an empowering journey to discover your feminine energy, build a meaningful relationship,

and find your purpose. Let's dive in and explore all things womanhood together. My loves,

it's episode three. We're out every Tuesday. I am so glad you can join me today. Thank you

for everybody who has followed the podcast and given it a five star review. It means the

world to me, you guys are the best. Today we're going to be discussing something that I never thought

I would touch upon because I'm not one who likes to set rules. I like to make my own guidelines.

I would say rules are not something that I've applied in my life, but from having coached and

talked to several women over the years, I've decided that some things must be set in stone.

There must be some rules in this place because without them, we are not going to move forward.

We need to take some things as granted, one might say. We need to say that those things are the

way they are so that it's not confusing because some of these messages that I get from women

make me understand that we do not know our boundaries, our values and basic principles of what

you are to expect from somebody. So I've written down a few little rules of my own.

And the first one is a doozy. This is the one that's really going to shift something for you,

I believe, because it's taken me a while to come up with this one. It's the question of when should

you sleep with a guy when you're dating. There is a six month philosophy, there's a three month

philosophy, there is the way to marriage, there is the, you know, liberal feminism where we are

like men and if we feel like it, then we must do it and we must be free to do it. So look,

this is what I've decided to impart on to you. The moment that you sleep with a person as a woman,

it solidifies like a freeze frame, like a picture, like something that you take a snapshot of

of the relationship as it currently stands. This isn't always the case and as the rule goes,

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