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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

#3 Most Downloaded: Sex Tips and Tricks for Newlyweds (or Not-So-Newlyweds)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 13 September 2022

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Q: My wife and I are newlyweds, and right now sex is a little bit of a struggle and seems forced. Any advice or suggestions? We’re spending the next few weeks reviewing our TOP 5 MOST DOWNLOADED episodes of the past year. And this one came in at #3. Friends – we’re talking about sex! Gary Thomas, my co-author, is joining me as co-host for this Love & Relationships Podcast Series: All About SEX! Today’s question comes from a newlywed couple looking for advice and sex tips to overcome some of the struggles of being a new-to-sex.  But the advice we give them today doesn’t just apply to newlywed sex! If sex has been a little bit of a struggle lately, then this episode is for you. We talk about the #1 tip to making sex better for both parties, some obstacles that come up as newlyweds and beyond, as well as some other sex tips and tricks along the way!!! Tune in this episode of the Love & Relationships Podcast and follow the show by clicking on the button below! FOLLOW MY PODCAST AND LISTEN ON Apple PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO The Debra Fileta Counselors Network is taking new clients!! Book a session with one of our trained Christian counselors and get started on your healing journey from the inside-out TODAY! BOOK A SESSION.  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written five books including Choosing Marriage, True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline-style show where people call in with all of their questions about love, sex, dating, singleness, marriage, and mental and emotional health.

0:31.1

I'm your host, Deborah Felita.

0:32.9

And I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted conversations where I answer your questions

0:38.7

in short, bite-sized, practical answers.

0:42.1

For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor, relationship expert, and author of five books.

0:48.5

I also run the popular relationship advice blog, TrueLovedates.com, reaching millions of people with the message that

0:55.6

healthy people make healthy relationships. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show,

1:02.2

send it by voice memo to Deborah at Truelovedates.com or submit it on my podcast page,

1:08.4

truveladates.com slash love and relationships. And I'll do my best to get it

1:14.1

answered on one of the episodes. Let's dig in to today's topic. The Love and Relationships

1:22.9

podcast has gotten a whole lot of new listeners over the past couple years.

1:33.4

So we're taking some time to review and refresh some of your favorite episodes.

1:40.5

Whether this is your first time to listen or just a refresher, I want you to sit back and enjoy some of these must listen to episodes from the Love and Relationships podcast.

1:48.0

Hey friends, welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast. I'm so excited that you're

1:53.1

joining us. My co-host is Pastor and Best Selling Spiritual Writer Gary Thomas. Gary, I'm so

2:00.8

glad you're able to join me for this.

2:03.2

Oh, thanks, Deborah. I've been looking forward to this. This is going to be fun.

2:06.6

So Gary and I have done a lot of work together over the past, I guess probably we could say year now because it takes that long to write a book.

2:16.2

And Gary and I are tag teaming this sex series from the perspective

2:21.1

of a therapist and pastor, male, female, Gary's in his 50s, I'm in my 30s, and that's actually

2:29.3

why we've partnered to write the new book, Married Sex. Gary, can you tell us for those who don't know

2:35.7

the background story of how this book came to be? I've been wanting to do a book on this,

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