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ManTalks Podcast

3 Mental Health Issues Men Struggle With More Than Women

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8591 Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2024

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Talking points: psychology, depression, 

These are 3 conditions you may have never heard of before, but based on my experience working with men for 10+ years, they’ve got a significant presence. They’re also under-discussed.

(00:00:00) - Dysthymia, aka low-key depression

(00:04:25) - Alexithymia, when you can't describe emotions

(00:07:06) - Derealization, when nothing feels real

Further Reading

-Dysthymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysthymia

-Alexithymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexithymia

-Derealization: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Derealization


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0:00.0

All right, men, welcome back to the men talk show.

0:09.0

Connor Beaton here.

0:09.9

And today we're going to be talking about three mental health issues that men generally

0:15.0

struggle with more than women.

0:17.3

Now, I don't have a peer-reviewed research paper to back this up.

0:21.7

This is based off of 10,000, 15,000 plus hours of working with men over the last decade.

0:27.7

And so we're going to dive in because I find that these three things are things that men are struggling with that oftentimes either go, we can call it undiagnosed or unrecognized within men.

0:38.7

And I'm going to try and speak to how you can move through each one of these.

0:42.9

So the first one that I want to talk about is dysthymia.

0:47.5

This is a persistent, mild form of depression.

0:53.4

It's kind of like a low-grade depression that doesn't really

0:57.1

lift. And it's not so bad that it's debilitating. I kind of call it functional depression. It's like

1:03.3

a guy is always a little sad. He's kind of got like a little bit of cloud of Eeyore around him,

1:10.0

but he still does life. He's still social. He's still of got like a little bit of cloud of Eeyore around him, but he still does life. You know, he's still social. He's still outdoing things. You know, you still go to the gym a couple times a week or, you know, you still function, right? It's kind of like a low grade functioning alcoholics. Like you're not full-blown. You're not missing work. You're not, you know, so bad that people are questioning

1:29.1

you about whether or not you should have that next Jack Daniels. It's just kind of like low-grade.

1:33.7

And the reason why I bring this one up and share it first is that this is the experience that

1:39.2

many men have that doesn't get addressed in therapy often. And this is the experience that many men

1:46.6

have because they feel a kind of uselessness in their life. They're like, I don't really feel like

1:52.6

I have much going for me. I don't really feel like I have direction. I don't really feel like I have

1:57.7

really solid connections. And so there's kind of like this consistent

2:01.6

and persistent low grade sadness and cloud and loneliness that they live inside of. And they

2:09.8

can't really shake. It's like I think it was Linus from Snoopy, right? The one with the blanket

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