Problems for 23 instruct believers to keep our hearts with all diligence. Meaning that there are aspects of our hearts that

are prone to drift from truth. Oh yeah. We're prone to going off the rails. Now to somebody with a robust

I'll use this term theology of man. We know

that we are sinners that we have this sin nature that

until the Holy Spirit works in our hearts, the sin nature is governing our hearts. So if you're

foundational belief, listening to this or headed into marriage is that humans are basically good.

Then that's not a biblical belief. Humans are basically fallen. And yes, we can do good things.

That's by the grace of God. We can do good. We can be nice. We can be kind. We can do. We can

say true things. But when it comes to our position in terms of holiness, in terms of

standing before God, we are not by default headed toward truth. We are but by default heading away

from it. And how does that work itself out in marriage? That's what we're going to discuss today.

That there are these subtle lies that if we do not keep our hearts with all diligence as the

writer of Proverbs tells us Solomon. Then we are prone to believing these three. And I think

they're subtle lies, but they're huge. So they're subtle, but they work in big ways.

Yeah, I think we can believe them. We can live unaware of believing them. They kind of creep in,

but we can also be living outright in them and being like, what do I do with this struggle that

I'm having with this lie? What is the truth? And how can I not live in this lie anymore?

Yeah, so hopefully through this episode you will be encouraged to kind of look introspectively.

Are you believing any one of these lies? Maybe you're believing more than one of these lies? And if so,

what are we to do and how are we to walk in the light? So thank you for joining us. We'll see you on the

other side. Greetings and welcome. My name is Ryan. This is my lovely wife, Selina. We are the

Fredericks. This is Sunny. Yes. Sunny is with us from the get go. She had an awesome nap right up

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