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Calm Parenting Podcast

3 Common Situations In Which You Can “Give In” & Still Be A Good Parent #531

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

There are times when you are clear with your expectations and your child doesn't comply. Do you ever wonder, "Should I follow through right now...or would it be smarter to just let it go?" These gray areas of parenting are tough! Kirk walks you through three scenarios in which you may feel like you're "giving in," but it may be the right thing to do. You can give in sometimes and you’re still a good parent. I want to give you options. Our Big Fall Sale ends THIS WEEKEND. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products/ to get dozens of scripts to help in every situation. Email [email protected] with any questions and to get a personalized plan on how to implement the programs.


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1:15.6

So do you ever find yourself in situations in which you're not quite sure if you should follow through on a consequence?

1:26.0

Maybe you're involved in situations where your spouse is like,

1:29.0

hey, we really need to do what we said we were going to do here. And you're thinking, I'm not quite

1:33.9

sure that right now is the time to do that. Well, good. That makes you a parent. And that especially

1:40.5

makes you a parent of a more strong willwilled child because you are going to find yourself

1:45.3

in these situations all the time. Lots of gray areas and second-guessing yourself and wondering if you're

1:52.2

doing the right thing. Look, naturally compliant kids, just do what you say. But you have a child

1:58.2

who waits until the last minute, pushes the limits, and argues relentlessly, and it's hard.

2:04.0

So I want to go through three common situations in which you can give in and still be a good parent.

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