3 Awesome Strategies to Get the First Kiss With a Girl (WITH NO AWKWARDNESS!!!)
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 20 January 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
In this hard-hitting throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down one of his most effective methods for creating a seamless, natural first kiss, the Slide and Kiss Method. This strategy is designed for moments where attraction is clearly present, but the kiss hasn't happened organically yet, and you need to confidently lead things forward without killing the vibe.
Mark explains why the first kiss should feel spontaneous and memorable, how to properly read a woman's signals before escalating, and why men must lead while still calibrating to her level of interest. Using real-world experience, humor, and step-by-step instruction, he walks you through exactly how to execute this method in a way that feels confident, masculine, and smooth, while still allowing room to abort if the timing isn't right.
Key Takeaways:
- How to recognize clear signs that a woman wants to be kissed.
- The step-by-step breakdown of Mark's patented Slide and Kiss Method.
- How to recover smoothly if your timing is off.
- Why women act as the "barometer" for escalation and timing.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context
[00:00:41] – Introduction to the Slide and Kiss technique
[00:01:38] – Why natural, spontaneous kisses are superior
[00:03:20] – Reading attraction and knowing when to escalate
[00:05:49] – The Slide and Kiss Method explained
[00:10:45] – How to properly execute the kiss
[00:12:00] – The 80/100 rule and technique recap
[00:15:41] – Why this method is so effective
[00:18:24] – Episode Outro
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Boys, I got a good one for you today, the Slight and Kiss method. |
| 0:05.0 | When it comes to the first kiss, we always have to remember that we want it to happen seamlessly, ideally. You guys are just close. She's looking at your mouth, she's looking at your eyes. It's very obvious. She wants you to kiss her and then you kiss her. That's the best way for it to happen. We don't like these contrived gambits. |
| 0:21.0 | We don't like to have to force it. |
| 0:23.0 | But this one, in my opinion, and then you kiss her. That's the best way for it to happen. We don't like these contrive gambits. |
| 0:21.4 | We don't like to have to force it. But this one, in my opinion, is the most seamless when it comes |
| 0:27.2 | to, quote unquote, contrive types of gambits to create the kiss. And again, this method I'm about |
| 0:32.7 | to give you is gangster to create that if it doesn't happen naturally. |
| 0:37.9 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. |
| 0:41.0 | What is up, your absolute champions. |
| 0:43.1 | Thank you for tuning in to yet another groundbreaking episode of the UMP and boys. |
| 0:48.0 | I got a good one for you today, the Slight and Kiss Method. |
| 0:51.2 | God, I have so many methods to get girls attracted to you, to get them |
| 0:54.7 | sprung on you, to kiss them, to get them into bed. It's just so many methods, bro. I have a fucking |
| 0:59.4 | vault full of methods that I'm going to be honest with you. I usually reserve for my guys in my |
| 1:04.8 | three-month coaching program, but I take a couple gold nuggets out of that vault and toss them at you |
| 1:09.5 | here at the podcast just to show you |
| 1:11.7 | what my coaching can do, how effective these strategies I've come up with really are. And it's funny when I look back, I don't even remember how I came up with some of this shit. Sometimes I look at this stuff and I'm like, bro, how'd you think of that? And I'm like, I don't know, man, it just fucking comes to me. I have this weird, |
| 1:32.7 | God-given skill to just think of random shit. And somehow it always works. And this is going to work for you guys too. Now, when it comes to the first kiss, we always have to remember that we |
| 1:37.2 | want it to happen seamlessly, ideally. We don't like these contrive gambits. We don't like to have |
| 1:43.0 | to force it. But this one, in my opinion, |
| 1:45.9 | is the most seamless when it comes to, quote unquote, contrive types of gambits to create the kiss. |
| 1:52.1 | But the best thing we want is just for it to happen spontaneously. You guys are just close. |
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