299: They Don’t Commit Until These 4 Things Are True

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2025

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

What really makes someone commitment-worthy in dating? And what qualities do we need to make sure are there if we want someone to choose us?

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey look at 4 crucial must-haves for commitment. If you’ve ever been unsure if you’re choosing the right person (or want to make yourself someone who is seen as a great potential partner), this is for you.

Topics include:

Why chemistry isn’t enough for commitment
How to decide what is “enough” in the qualities you need in a potential partner
Attractive micro-behaviors that make someone see you as the person they want to commit to
A listener question on whether you should keep trying to get commitment from someone working through their own blocks and traumas
The importance of a “shared vision” in commitment

Links mentioned:

💬 Try Matthew AI and ask your first questions for free: https://www.askMH.com
🎟️ Join us at the Miami Retreat (October 18–19): https://www.MHRetreat.com
💞 Become a Love Life Member and join future live events: https://www.JoinLoveLife.com

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another episode of Love Life.
0:08.7	Today we are talking about the essential things that someone else needs to know about us
0:16.8	or needs to see in us for them to commit to us.
0:23.2	What are the most important factors in deciding if a person is worth committing to?
0:30.0	We also put out a poll to all of you asking you why you haven't committed to someone in the past
0:35.4	and we are going to be talking about what you should
0:38.2	look for in a potential relationship if you're deciding whether to commit to somebody. Also coming up
0:45.6	in the Love Life coaching program for all of our live loves. Is that what we're calling everyone?
0:51.2	It is at the moment. It's the best we've got. We have a live
0:54.5	coaching group with Stephen on June the 13th. Indeed. I am going to be doing an attraction
1:02.1	formula masterclass on June the 16th. There's a lot of talk about this one. For everyone who was
1:08.5	there in dating made simple, you know, I went into four
1:12.2	different components that are necessary for deep and lasting attraction. Well, I am going to be
1:18.2	breaking these down in detail in a master class on June the 16th. And there is a live coach check-in
1:24.6	with Audrey on June the 19th.
1:27.9	Hell yeah.
1:28.4	Wow.
1:28.8	So that's what you're doing on my birthday.
1:30.9	Yeah, I guess.
1:31.6	You're not spending it with me.
1:32.8	You're spending it with the Love Life coaching group.
1:34.9	Yeah.
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