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walk in love. with Brooke & T.J. Mousetis

298. The Invisible Weight (And Why It Feels So Heavy)

walk in love. with Brooke & T.J. Mousetis

Brooke & T.J. Mousetis

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9820 Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2026

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Most of life isn’t shaped by big, life-altering decisions—it’s shaped by the hundreds of small ones you make every single day. In this episode, we talk about the invisible load—the constant, ongoing responsibility of noticing, deciding, adjusting, and carrying the details of everyday life. The kind of work that rarely gets acknowledged because it’s never fully finished. We explore how this weight often looks different depending on your role. For some, it’s a handful of large, obvious responsibilities. For others—especially within the home—it’s hundreds of small ones that never quite leave your mind. Same weight. Different shape. And because it’s harder to see, it’s easier to dismiss—even by the person carrying it. This conversation puts language to that experience: why it feels so heavy, why it’s so hard to explain, and why it matters more than we realize. At the end, Brooke reads A Liturgy for the Invisible Load—a grounding reminder that some of the most meaningful work we do… is the work no one sees. If you love what we do and want more behind-the-scenes fun, bonus episodes, and exclusive content, join the walk in love. Podcast Membership today! 👉 Join here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://walkinlove.supercast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🤙 Ask us anything for a special episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://walkinlove.supercast.com/ama⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Three easy ways to support the podcast: ✅ Tell a friend—Text your BFF, your spouse, or your cool aunt about the show! ✅ Go Solar in PA, NY, NJ! —Save money, help the planet, and earn big referral bonuses! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.goingsolarinpa.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Plus, don’t forget to join our Facebook group to connect with the community! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - > ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/145545495229922 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Must remember, do not forget.

0:06.0

Remind me to bring photo ID.

0:10.0

Reminder, set.

0:12.0

Babe, can you make sure I don't forget my photo ID when I vote?

0:16.0

All right, love.

0:17.0

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0:22.3

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1:03.2

Hello and welcome to the Walk and Love podcast. I'm T.J.

1:09.8

And I'm Brooke. And this episode is la la la. It is 916 in the morning and I've only had one sip of coffee.

1:14.1

This episode is about the kind of decisions that no one really sees,

1:16.0

but somehow you feel them all day long.

1:28.5

This is also take two.

1:30.2

We'll get to that in a minute.

1:35.2

But thank you for listening and making us a part of your week, your month, your life, your day.

1:41.7

The Walk in the podcast is a weekly conversation about rhythms, parenting, faith, emotions, decisions.

1:44.2

It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cries.

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