The regulator of our brain, which is a prefrontal cortex, it's working at minimal level.

And in order for a person to be calm and balanced, actually that system has to be in the forefront.

And when it's be in the forefront.

And when it's not in the forefront,

you have an emotional system that has hijacked everything.

And so now you become just a reactor

and not sort of a controlled individual that thinks,

logically, you know what, this person's a damaged person or

or dangerous person or an offensive disrespectful person.

This is not a person I have in my life.

That's what the front of those would say and if the front of those were in charge, that's what you would do.

But because they're not in charge, you're in this sort of toxic cycle of sticking around.

Even saying yourself, this is not me because I remember saying that a million times to myself like I think I'm kind of a smart enough person and know this is not good

But what what am I doing here?

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On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast, we're talking about what happens to your

brain in a bad relationship with our guest Dr. Rhonda Freeman.

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