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The Mark Groves Podcast

#295: The Alchemy of Initiation with Francis Weller

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2023

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Themes: Nature, Culture, Initiation, Life’s Challenges, Loss, Grief, Death, Individualism, Community, Technology, Transformation, Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality Summary:  Today I welcome back returning guest Francis Weller, MFT, a psychotherapist, writer, and soul activist. He is a master of synthesizing diverse streams of thought from psychology, anthropology, mythology, alchemy, indigenous cultures, and poetic traditions. For 40 years, Francis has worked as a psychotherapist and developed a style he calls soul-centered psychotherapy. As a gifted therapist and teacher, he has been described as a jazz artist, improvising, and moving fluidly in and out of deep emotional territories with groups and individuals, bringing imagination and attention to places often held with judgment and shame. In this episode, Francis teaches us about initiations—what they are, why they are important for finding our place in this world, and the power they hold in ushering in personal growth and cultural belonging. We also jam about the importance of returning to nature, how disconnected and individualistic we are, and the soul’s relationship with grief. Francis has had a profound impact on me over the last three years, and I’m so excited to share this episode with you so that you can experience a deeper relationship with yourself and the world around you. Dive in! Discover: What initiation is and its role in personal growth and cultural/planetary belonging Rebuilding our lost relationship with nature The power of grief and how to move through it The impact of technology on our soulful connection with the world 00:00 Intro  01:22 Initiation as a path to personal growth and cultural belonging 04:21 The impact of individualism 08:23 The grief for our loss of intimacy with nature 11:38 What is an Initiation? 14:27 Accepting and moving through initiation 20:07 Relationship between grief and initiation 24:09 The loss of your soul  28:05 Returning back to the community 30:30 Impact of technology in our world 37:09 Rough initiation 44:59 Finding a place of belonging 48:34 Being disassociated from our own attention 52:13 Befriend your own life 55:19 A journey of transformation Links: Website:  www.francisweller.net The Alchemy of Initiation: Soul Work and the Art of Ripening Audio Recordings: https://www.francisweller.net/the-alchemy-of-initiation-a-five-week-series.html Sponsors:  Manna Vitality | Use code Mark20 for 20% off at mannavitality.com Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

There is no initiation without a death involved in it.

0:03.4

And we are so, again, self-oriented, I cling to everything and I hold on tight,

0:08.7

as if the loss of that pattern might put me in a place of not being able to control or manage my world,

0:15.1

which is terrifying when you're basically trying to fit in and get approved of.

0:24.9

You don't want to lose control, but initiation's all about that.

0:34.7

Hi, my name is Mark Groves, and I'm obsessed with understanding human behavior and why we do what we do.

0:38.1

In this podcast, I interview the world's most brilliant minds and hearts where I get to explore alongside you every subject you can imagine relating to our human experience

0:43.4

and how we relate. It is my deepest intention that we all learn how to create the life and love

0:48.6

that we've always dreamt of. Now, before we get rolling, make sure you hit that subscribe

0:52.6

button so you don't miss any episodes.

0:54.6

And one ask that I have. And an amazing way that you can help support the podcast is by wherever you listen to it, giving it a five-star review and a written review.

1:02.4

With all that said, let's dive in and transform our lives.

1:07.6

Hello and welcome back to another episode of the Mark Groves podcast.

1:11.6

Today I have returning guest.

1:14.7

You don't know this, which is a sign of being good.

1:17.9

I was going to say, a sign of being good at stalking is when the person you're stalking doesn't know you're stocking them.

1:22.7

You are, I would say, the most powerful voice in my life in the last three years.

1:28.3

And I've just learned so much from you.

1:31.3

And just through you sharing your message and putting it into your audio courses

1:35.7

just has such a profound impact on me.

1:40.1

And my relationship with depth and grief and what I previously might have labeled as darkness

1:48.3

and then shied away from that, but now embracing that feeling with such, there's such love for it.

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