Hello, lovely humans. I'm WIO Lee and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast of personal and sometimes professional shares in an effort to replace shame and fear with human connection and pleasure so we can co-create a more loving world together.

Our guest today is a 37-year-old queer, polyamorous, gender-non-conforming Latin ex-human

who uses they-then-he pronouns, and she went in drag.

They've been married for a year to their partner of 13 years and are into feet, spit and BDSM,

and were trained to be a dom by being a good sub, which means they lived in a cage for a year.

A former adult intimacy advisor and survival sex worker training to be a submissive transformed him into the best sir an educational sex worker.

Their mission is to spread awareness, love, and care, and he tries to not tell lies.

An artist, producer, entertainer, performer, go-go dancer, and only fans creator from

Southern California.

Welcome, Spike.

Hello, hello, nice to us see you and hear you and, you know, do all this.

Thank you for having me.

I'm so excited to hear your stories. Can you start off, though? First, we want to get to know you as a person.

So just broadly speaking, tell us, what do you love? What brings you joy? What makes you go woo?

Wow, what brings me joy and makes me feel woe? You know, I'm learning that I'm not sure I like people, but I love community.

You know, I love bringing people together.

I like, you know, I like being together and finding that common ground of artistic expression.

I love food.

I like movement, anything with wheels, art, music. Yeah. I love it. I love it. What are your

favorite ways to love yourself? Like, how do you woo you? I'm a big bath person. I strongly believe

in ritualistic baths, you know, finding the right ingredients to make you feel how you want to feel or what you need to feel or what you need to change.

I haven't been on my bicycle for quite some time because I got an accident, but I will get back on wheels.

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