29 Polyamory with an Expert (Charyn Pfeuffer)
How C*m
Remy Kassimir
4.8 • 2.3K Ratings
🗓️ 30 September 2018
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
What is polyamory and how do you do it?*
I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes.
On this episode we discuss it all:
Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding."
*This episode is a redo, sorry for the re-post, but was necessary. (Explained in ep)
Books Charyn recommends for those curious about in entering into polyamory:
1. The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
2. More Than Two by Eve Rickert
3. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan
4. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski
5. Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys welcome back to how come this episode we are talking about |
| 0:03.8 | polyamory we've talked about polyamory a lot on this podcast but mostly by people |
| 0:09.5 | who don't know too much about it who have only dabbled in it but today I am talking |
| 0:13.6 | one of the most knowledgeable people who practices Polyamory and writes about it as |
| 0:18.0 | well. Sharon Fyfer is my guest she is a feminist writer and sex educator. She has been writing about sex for |
| 0:25.0 | 20 years. Her work has appeared in more than 100 publications including Bravo TV, |
| 0:31.0 | Kinkley, Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery 29, |
| 0:33.7 | she knows, Thrillist, and the Washington Post. |
| 0:36.3 | She also writes a column on the Business of Sex |
| 0:38.7 | at Forbes.com. |
| 0:40.3 | How come? How come I can't achieve I can't achieve I can't achieve I'm rolling up my sleeves I'm rolling up my sleeves |
| 0:49.3 | Oh, baby I believe these guests can help because I can do it by myself I want a jiz. |
| 0:58.0 | Welcome Sharon. |
| 1:00.0 | Hi Remy. How are you? |
| 1:02.0 | I'm doing great. |
| 1:04.0 | How are you doing? |
| 1:05.0 | I'm great. So we have recorded this episode before. |
| 1:10.0 | Yes. I had to pull the first version because there was a person on it that we |
| 1:17.1 | interviewed that it turns out got accused of some pretty heinous sex crimes. |
| 1:24.0 | I kind of wanted to, I didn't want to pull it |
| 1:28.0 | because I wanted to cover my ass, I wanted to pull it |
| 1:31.0 | because I didn't really want to give him a voice. |
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