#287 The Sin of People-Pleasing, with Jinger Duggar Vuolo

The Alisa Childers Podcast

Alisa Childers

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality

4.8 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Jinger Duggar Vuolo joins the podcast to talk about how important it is to fear God over man, and how "people-pleasing" can harm relationships, silence truth, and cause mission drift. She shares her story of growing up on TV, breaking free from the false teachings of Bill Gothard, and ultimately overcoming people-pleasing to speak out against these doctrines. She speaks about navigating conflict, applying the Bible to everyday situations, and what it has cost her to fear God over man. ------------------------------------------------------------------This video is sponsored by:SEVEN WEEKS COFFEETaste the Coffee that is Saving Lives.Go to www.sevenweekscoffee.com for more information.Use my code: ALISAFOUNDATION WORLDVIEWFoundation Worldview creates curriculum series that will empower your child to thinkBiblically in a deceptive world.Go to www.foundationworldview.com for more information!Use my code: ALISASUMMITGive your kids a stronger foundation to embrace a biblical worldview.Go to www.summit.org for more informationUse my code: ALISA25--------------------------------------------------------------------To Purchase the new CD, “Beauty from the Ash”, go to www.alisachilders.com/musicThere you can get the CD, backing tracks, string charts, rhythm charts and stems.Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/alisachildersTo order “Another Gospel”: www.alisachilders.com/another-gospel/To order “Live Your Truth": www.alisachilders.com/live-your-truth-and-other-lies/To order “The Deconstruction of Christianity”: https://alisachilders.com/the-deconstruction-of-christianity/For Alisa's Merch: https://alisachilders.creator-spring.comTo see what gear Alisa uses to record her podcast, go to:https://kit.co/alisachildersPotential Sponsors: https://alisachilders.com/sponsor-request-form/Product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission.

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0:00.0	when we were first married i wanted to keep jeremy happy with me because i thought that was how
0:04.2	i was going to keep my husband satisfied and happy in marriage was to be the perfect wife which
0:10.1	was another one of bill gothift's teachings right so i'm so heavily into that until he was like i want to
0:16.8	know who you are can you can we just you you know, have disagreements and tell me what
0:23.4	you think? I don't want you to be a clone of me.
0:34.6	Hey, everyone. This is the Elisa Childers podcast. I'm Elisa Childers. My goal here is to equip Christians to identify the core beliefs of historic Christianity, discern its counterfeits and proclaim the gospel with clarity, kindness, and truth. And I've just had a great conversation with Ginger Dugger Vuelo. Many of you know her from the reality TV series, 17 kids and counting. I think the title kept
0:56.2	changing as they added more kids to the family, but many of us watched the Dugger family and
1:01.4	Ginger grow up on these TLC reality shows. And she has an amazing story of disentangling the
1:08.7	false teachings of Bill Gothard and some of that, and then discovering
1:13.4	true Christianity, true biblical faith by untangling the false ideas from the true ones.
1:19.8	And we have a prior interview with her back in the archives.
1:22.8	I really encourage you to check out that talks more about those teachings and how she went
1:26.4	through that process of disentangling.
1:28.0	But today, we're talking about the concept of people pleasing.
1:31.7	And I think this is really important.
1:33.3	I really want to say to everybody listening, this isn't just for women.
1:36.9	In fact, I said this to Ginger in the interview.
1:39.1	I really think that one of the biggest reasons that there's mission drift and even drifting into progressive
1:46.3	ideas and woke ideas in churches and in different Christian institutions is this, it's
1:51.6	this idea of wanting to please people or really what the Bible calls it is the fear of man.
1:57.8	And as Christians, we need to overcome our fear of man. And I want to just share some
2:02.9	scriptures with you before I get into this conversation with Ginger. Galatians 1, this is when
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