I'd love to hear a little bit about, you know, you had this thruple that you kind of,

it sounds like maybe just appeared in your house.

Literally.

Yeah, like literally.

And then can you just share a little bit about kind of like what the unfoldings from there

were to, that led you to learning more about polyamory and kind of like where you are now

with all of that?

So the thrruple,

like I said, the person was a good friend of my partner and just kind of ended up with us.

And quite early on, I was aware that there was conversations around boundaries that didn't happen.

But I didn't have the strength or the bravery or any of that to have that conversation.

So I put that back on him.

I was like, you found this person, so you need to have this conversation.

And we actually moved 3,000 kilometres from one side of Australia to the other side of Australia.

And she came with us, along with six of the kids.

And on the drive up there with just myself and my partner, the initial drive up there, I said to him, when she comes up before me, I need you to have a conversation with her.

I need there to be some space in our relationship

because I don't feel like we have any space for each other. It's all us. And I need there to be

some space for you and I because I can feel the connection between you and her is very strong

and it's making me feel nervous. I'm not feeling good about this.

The conversation didn't happen for months and months and months after that. I got, I was aware

of the connection that they both had. It ended up feeling very suspicious. Like they were talking

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