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The Gabby Reece Show

#286 This Conversation Helped Me Confront My Past w/ Dr. Richard Schwartz

The Gabby Reece Show

GOTOGABBY

Health & Fitness, Business, Society & Culture, Relationships, Entrepreneurship, Mental Health

4.8 • 890 Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2024

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

In this emotional episode, Gabby Reece sits down with Dr. Richard Schwartz, the creator of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model of therapy. Dr. Schwartz explains how IFS helps individuals address and heal their inner emotional conflicts by understanding their "parts"—the different facets of their personalities that carry past traumas, anxieties, or unresolved emotions. This episode covers the foundations of IFS, its applications in therapy, and practical tips for integrating self-compassion and mindfulness into everyday life. Dr. Schwartz shares real-life examples of how he helps clients identify their protective parts, heal past trauma, and foster self-leadership. Gabby takes part in a live demonstration of the IFS process, providing listeners with an intimate view of how IFS can help individuals reconnect with their authentic selves and heal from past emotional wounds. Show Notes Introduction to Dr. Richard Schwartz and Internal Family Systems (IFS) Gabby introduces Dr. Schwartz, providing background on his career and the development of the Internal Family Systems model of therapy, which is rooted in understanding the "parts" of ourselves that protect us from emotional pain. Understanding Our Internal Parts [00:00:00 - 00:10:00] Dr. Schwartz explains the concept of "parts" in IFS therapy—sub-personalities that protect us by carrying different burdens and traumas from the past. He discusses the importance of understanding and healing these parts for emotional well-being. The Power of Curiosity in Healing [00:10:01 - 00:25:00] Gabby and Dr. Schwartz discuss the role of curiosity in self-awareness and healing. By approaching one's emotional parts with compassion and curiosity, individuals can begin to heal past wounds and release the protective mechanisms that no longer serve them. A Live Demonstration of IFS [00:25:01 - 00:45:00] Gabby participates in a live IFS session led by Dr. Schwartz. He guides Gabby through identifying and working with one of her protective parts, providing listeners with a firsthand look at how IFS therapy works. No Bad Parts: The Healing Process [00:45:01 - 01:00:00] Dr. Schwartz emphasizes the idea that there are "no bad parts" in us—only parts that have taken on protective roles. He explains how healing these parts can lead to greater self-compassion, freedom, and emotional resilience. Applying IFS in Daily Life and Relationships [01:00:01 - 01:15:00] Gabby and Dr. Schwartz explore how individuals can use IFS in their daily lives to improve their relationships, communication, and emotional regulation. They also touch on how parents can teach these principles to their children. The Future of IFS and Mental Health [01:15:01 - 01:30:00] Dr. Schwartz discusses his vision for the future of IFS and how it can be used not only in therapy but in broader cultural and societal contexts. He shares insights into how IFS can transform family dynamics and mental health on a larger scale. Resources: Dr. Richard Schwartz Website: Learn more about Internal Family Systems at https://ifs-institute.com/ Follow @internalfamilysystems on Social Media Everything Gabby Reece: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialGabrielleReece/ Gabby Reece Website - https://gabriellereece.com/ Sponsors: Fatty 15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/GABBY and using code GABBY at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order. Maui Nui: Get 20% off your first order of fresh venison, jerky, broth, and ‘ohana subscription by going to www.MauiNuiVenison.com/GABBY and using the code GABBY at checkout. Bon Charge: My listeners get 15% off when you order from boncharge.com and use my exclusive promo code GABBY at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I can feel lightness for sure.

0:05.1

Uh-huh.

0:07.0

And ask her if she'd like to leave that time and place with you.

0:11.5

Yeah, and the location is so specific.

0:15.2

Where?

0:16.4

It's in a house that I lived on in St. Thomas that was...

0:23.6

It was just particularly... Hi, I'm Gabby Reese. I'm a retired professional volleyball player and co-founder of XPT Fitness and Lared

0:38.6

Superfoods. On this podcast, we interview experts about the latest in health and fitness so you can

0:44.5

maximize performance in all areas of your busy life. And today I'm talking with therapist and

0:49.9

conflict resolution expert, Dr. Richard Schwartz, who also created internal family systems.

0:55.9

Listen, we all deal with conflict every day. Sometimes it's at home or within our professional

1:00.7

career at the office. Other times, it's that moment when you're cut off all driving.

1:05.3

But how often do you find those moments of conflict derailing your entire day or even weak. This vicious cycle of

1:12.4

conflict spiraling is something that most of us are never taught how to break out of, which is why I

1:17.6

brought Dr. Schwartz on to the podcast. He is an expert in conflict resolution and is going to

1:22.5

share real world strategies for managing conflict better so that you can stop fixating on what's wrong and

1:28.1

start focusing on what matters the most to you. It's also about the third show I've ever cried on.

1:34.5

Welcome to the Gabby Reese show. Let's go.

1:43.4

Dr. Richard Schwartz, thank you for joining me.

1:46.2

And I know you like to be called Dick, so we'll keep it at that.

1:49.6

But I always say that someone who has worked as long as you have in this field and done as much work as you have, we're going to at least officially introduce you.

2:01.5

And welcome, welcome to the show.

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