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10% Happier with Dan Harris

284: How To Handle A Narcissist (Including, Maybe...Yourself) | Keith Campbell

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

4.612.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 September 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

“Narcissist” is a word that gets thrown quite a bit, including by me -- often, semi-facetiously, about myself. But until this conversation, I didn’t actually know what the word meant. My guest today is Keith Campbell, who’s been researching narcissism for more than 30 years. He’s got a new book called The New Science of Narcissism. In this episode, we talk about the difference between garden variety narcissism and the diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, the difference between grandiose narcissism and vulnerable narcissism, what to do with if you’re married to a narcissist, how to identify your own narcissism, and what he calls the CPR method for narcissism control. Where to find Keith Campbell online: Website: https://wkeithcampbell.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/wkeithcampbell Book Mentioned: The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement by Jean M. Twenge and W. Keith Campbell: https://bookshop.org/books/the-narcissism-epidemic-living-in-the-age-of-entitlement/9781416575993 The New Science of Narcissism by W. Keith Campbell: https://bookshop.org/books/the-new-science-of-narcissism-understanding-one-of-the-greatest-psychological-challenges-of-our-time-and-what-you-can-do-about-it/9781683644026 Other Resources Mentioned: Chelsea Sleep: https://psychology.uga.edu/directory/people/chelsea-sleep Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche: https://shambhala.org/teachers/chogyam-trungpa/ Sigmund Freud: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Sigmund-Freud Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App access for Frontline Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/kieth-campbell-284 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Okay, before we get started with today's episode, I want to let you know about some very

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cool programming cool, at least in my opinion, that we're going to run during the month of

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May.

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Every Monday, during the month of May, we're going to talk to a bold face name, a famous

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person about what their inner lives are like.

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Really all the people you're going to hear from are willing to spill their guts and say

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some fascinating things that are both fascinating and also, I think, useful.

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So the series starts on Monday, May 1st.

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We're going to kick it off with the actor and long time Buddhist practitioner Michael

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Imperioli, who you might remember from the sopranos and the white lotus.

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He's quite a serious Buddhist practitioner and I would even say teacher.

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Then the following Monday on May 8th, it's Neil deGrasse Tyson, the astrophysicist, author

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and speaker who's going to talk about having a cosmic perspective on life.

0:51.5

After that, it's Mike D from the Beastie Boys, one of my all time favorite human beings and

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artists and he really comes to play.

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Then we finish it all up with May and the Alec, actor, neuroscientist and co-host of

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Jeopardy.

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So it's a big month.

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However, if you're not the type of person who likes celebs, we've got you covered because

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on Wednesdays during the month of May, we're going to go deep Dharma.

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We're going to be digging into a classic foundational Buddhist list called the Eightfold Path.

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This is kind of like the Buddha's eight-step recipe for a good life and we're going to divide

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